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As a moderator of computer security forums (cryptography specifically) who deal with both cranks and aggressive spammers - you just can't do without bans.
The only long term solution is to ensure there's always more than one community with separate leadership, so there's accountability for mods through pressure from the users. The threat to leave must feel credible.
Yeah, I agree that the complexity is larger in practice than just saying no bans. And I've even commented recently that I've heard directly from coders that it is easier to code and built the platforms than it is to manage the user base. I also said I'm not a coder so I can't make that claim. But I've heard it first hand.
But I still can't agree in principle with the blank nature of banning. I have to say that I've never been banned from any online space. Not once. Not on reddit, not on Lemmy, and I hope that continues now on Piefed. So, I'm not defending this principle on a basis that I've experienced a ban in its true opressive form like some people are sharing in this thread. Because I haven't. But I have in the past taken a stand in defence of people that I vehemently disagreed with, because I believe however heinous their comments or choice of words were, I want them to be out in the open. That is how the accountability can actually occur. And that is how they get to be challenged. Not cast out without reasoning. If they leave to set up shop somewhere where only the heinous will follow, that's how we allow this wound to fester and spread its putrefaction. And no form of accountability or consequence actuality took place. None whatsoever.
And it was extremely bad news when I saw the freedom of speech starting to become a proud talking point of conservative and retrograde outlets more than a decade ago. Which was in my impression at the tail-end of Gamergate. ( But did it ever end though? SJW versus Anti-SJW just got rebranded as Woke versus Anti-Woke) But sill, I think back then was when all the grifters that are now famous spotted this great online grift : Say something obnoxious or questionably dubious, then let in the brigade that want to tell them they can't say that, so that they can sound the horn and call the free speech absolutists and cry out that freedom of speech is under threat and nearly gone. All while they have the freedom to recycle and repeat this nonsense over and over.
This type of political play has been around for a long time...
But here, online, it's truly the same method of the old online Troll. I mean, I even found some trolling in the past absolutely ingenious and even hilarious in some cases. But I guess a lot of people didn't learn the old ungated ways of the internet, where we would spot the Troll and know not to feed it. As the online spaces became more deranged it became harder to distinguish and we went from playing "spot the troll" to playing "is this satire?" really quickly.
But still, anyone perceptive knew these rising grifters only wanted to defend this right so they could get to opress the rights of others and control the narrative all while cashing in on furthering the protective barrier for the wealthy class to keep hoarding more wealth and control. I believe some were even being sponsored to do so. And there's been some evidence uncovered of some extreme far right groups even directly funding this type of bait in Europe. I mean, it was always clear as day, but they managed to garner a lot of suppport from gullible people who thought they were being virtuous in the defense of freedom. But they were surrendering control to the faction and people who want to control speech the most. Because they always have wanted to control it the most all along.
But this was only possible because some people really intended on policing speech instead of disarming the nonsense with facts through the same freedom. As righteous as their motivations might've been, this was a truly misguided step.
The righteous path cannot mimic the behaviours and practices of oppression and tyranny. It will only bring about the same cycles of resistance. As it obviously has.
Nothing that is merely enforced is ever truly learned, and this way true progress is never achieved.