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Unfortunately yes; I was taped to a tree in elementary school for what felt like an eternity until one of the teachers found me.
Like duct tape? How much tape does it take to hold a kid up?
Asking for a friend...
They took an entire roll, the tree wasn't a particularly big tree.
Yep. First time ever was a real trip though. I was at a girl's house and she ties me up with some of her scarves as things are getting hot and heavy.
I enjoy spanking so I asked her to punish me because I was too shy to ask for what I wanted so she tied me up and started biting and scratching me.
Looooook beggars can't be choosers.
After a few minutes the doorbell rings and she tells me "don't go anywhere..."
Well she was gone a long time and I'm buck naked with my dick hanging out and peppered with scratch and bite marks and I get it in my head that it's her dad.
Don't ask where I got that idea, but we were in a religiously conservative country and I didn't want to get my dick cut off.
Anyway I managed to get loose from the scarves. It was an intense 90 seconds or so and my wrists got pretty raw.
She comes back and it was just a delivery.
She was bit perturbed with me because I really fucked one of the scarves up in the process but we had a laugh and got back to it.
Only by my own hand, unfortunately
I can help you with that.
Nope. I don't like to lose control.
and tickled. Fun enough to show up twice but broke almost instantly 2nd time round.. Not swearing off forever but they'd need a shitload of charisma.
You too? Was it a challenge or a dare?
Like as a hostage or as a sexual submissive?
Can it be both?
With consent it can be nearly anything
Just not hostage unfortunately
Yes, coworker wanted to use me to get back at others.
Wait what?
It seemed easiest for him I guess. People didn't always get along (they still don't) and hostaging me at their place was a way to increase his bluff.
Wait, what?
Is a meme going over my head or are people confused about something? It's not really something I look forward to talking about, it just happened. Someone thought it wouldn't be uncool to kidnap, what would people like to know?
What sort of workplace were you at where people kidnap you? Did he get fired and arrested?
Yes, he got arrested. I really just got caught in some wrong crossfire. Nothing black-market-esque involved.
Brother that is a wild fucking story. Write that shit down and turn it into a Netflix true crime mini-series.
I didn't even tell the whole thing. Neither would I be comfortable with it being what people choose to televise.
I have siblings, yes. They are older. How did you know?
Yes, once as part of an BDSM session. A guy I really fancied was into BDSM, so I thought give it a try, see if I like it. Turns out I didnt and dont. At . All. As it happens, I intensely dislike being bound or restrained in any way. I also cant stand pain, and in addition I am incapable of inflicting pain on others. Oh, and I'm allergic to leather.
After our attempted BDSM session had inevitably turned to farce, he commented to me over a cup of tea afterwards that I was the most uniquely unsuited person to BDSM practices that he'd ever encountered... never a truer word spoke.
Not yet but it's on my list to try π
Only metaphorically.
I like to bind. I like to be bound.
Yes. Have you?
Yes
Yea when I was a kid we would play hide and seek and the hiders would tie up the seeker before they went to hide and the seeker could start looking for them as soon as they escaped. I was always really fast because I would flex my muscles while they were tying me up and then as soon as they took off I could make myself smaller then that and it was easy to wiggle out. I think I had read that in a Batman comic.
Yes
Nope.
Yep, so fun