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[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago

Psytrance. I had a bad experience at a psytrance club night as a student where I'd uh consumed my entertainment from the evening at halls of residence, but then my mate gave me another for free at the night. Wasn't feeling too intoxicated before that so thought, "ah fuck it." This, dear reader, was a mistake.

I made it about 2.5 hours before begging my gf (now wife) to leave because I thought the whooshing effects they use on the tracks was repeatedly saying my name.

After leaving the nightclub I instantly felt better and the rest of the evening was ok. Just psytrance has never sounded the same.

As an aside, weird crowd there, like lots of millenials like myself who seemed to be neurodiverse or emotionally troubled in some way - including the scantily clad young women. But then there were also older men there who were a mixture of drug dealers and losers who appeared to be out for drugged up teen genitalia of some one kind or the other. This was 13-14 years ago and I noticed a similar phenomenon at house music clubs jn the intervening years (don't go clubbing much these days lol).

[–] selkiesidhe@sh.itjust.works 3 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Twangy country. It's embarrassing

[–] reddig33@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

For me there’s a difference between an honest accent and laying it on thick. Someone like Dolly Parton has an actual southern accent. But most of what’s played on modern country radio is just an annoying act.

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Country music. That twangy sound is super grating to me, I hate the way certain vowels get stretched out, plus I have no cultural touchpoints with it on either a lyrical or musical level. The stuff that seems most popular is the most obnoxious to me. I'm told this is "the Nashville sound". Different strokes for different folks, but I sincerely don't get the appeal of it.

But there's some country-adjacent music that can be alright. E.g., my husband got really into Sturgill Simpson and I ended up more or less liking his Sound and Fury album, even if some of the vocals do have that irritating twang. I guess I'd consider that more like country-infused rock.

And I guess some older country can be OK once in a while - e.g., Johnny Cash, Dolly Parton.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (1 children)

There was a catechism on Reddit whenever some 20 something guy would say he hated country music:

Jason Isbell

Sturgill Simpson

Tyler Childers

I can't remember all of them, I do like country music now I found the good stuff, but hate what's on the radio for sure, it is truly awful music. My husband has come around because of what I listen to.

None of this is to convince you! There is a wide wide world of music, you will not run out even if you are afraid of twang. Your comment just brought me back to the earlier Reddit.

(ETA I was just listening to Sound & Fury today, I like Simpson's country stuff but LOVE that rock album, start to finish it's so good )

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 2 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Yup my husband likes Tyler Childers too, but I don't care for him. I don't think I've heard of Jason Isbell.

But to each their own! I love pop music from the '60s and my husband's not nuts about it. Like Sly and the Family Stone say, different strokes for different folks. :)

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Leon Bridges and Charley Crockett are touring together, I have seen both and they are great performers but what I am most happy about is the way they are showing the link between country and R&B. What you like is probably not as far removed from what he likes, as you think. Music is a river.

Who doesn't like Sly & the Family Stone? What the heck?

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 1 points 17 hours ago

I cannot explain the man lol ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Mexican tribal/machaca. Dear paisanos, can we fucking not??

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 1 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

I was gonna say Mariachi and the like. Idk if it's just the music, or if the musicians I usually hear just suck (most of the time I only hear it live from street muscians); it always sounds like each member of the band is playing a totally different song than the others and it just sounds like clashing noises to me.

[–] FeloniousPunk@lemmy.today 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I’m afraid of listening to Grateful Dead for the fear of possibly liking it.

[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago

They did not sound like what I was expecting first time I listened to one of their records. Maybe I was wrong to expect a psychedelic jam band, maybe starting with American Beauty and Workingman's Dead did not give me a representative view.

The way people talking about them I was expecting something really out there like Gong or Acid Mothers Temple!

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I find some types of rap include lyrics I find offensive, and so I skip them.

I do not enjoy a lot of country music. If it sounds like the theme song to firefly - I'm so conflicted - I wouldn't listen to it otherwise.

But that's a personal preference. I did some Algerian rap the other night, and it sounded really good.

[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago

Check out MC Solaar if you'd like to hear some French rap.

Or Nujabes - DJ who collabed with a lot of conscious rappers in the 00s - for some "light" rap. I'm underselling him but imagine a Dave Brubeck for rap instead of jazz; technically amazing but easy listening / quite poppy.

[–] Almacca@aussie.zone 22 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Anything 'AI' generated, because fuck that uncreative nonsense.

[–] Booboofinget@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I've been noticing a ton of thosebon YouTube. Especially for goth music. I don't mind if they use AI for images as not all independent bands have money to produce a video. However, using it to make the song is pretty vile. Especially because the lyrics are trite to the point of screaming.

[–] Almacca@aussie.zone 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Honestly, I don't have a problem with trite lyrics. Some of my most favourite songs are pretty trite. I've long desired to be a songwriter, but the reason I haven't is because I don't think I could accept putting out anything trite. The difference is, that no matter how trite the actual words or meaning are, lyrics produced by actual human artists have a rhythm and flow that can't be matched by machinery, or even cynical human music industry producers.

[–] Booboofinget@lemmy.world 2 points 22 hours ago

Agreed. The triteness of a song is what gives it away for me. For example, if a goth song keeps hammering out about vampires and cemeteries I skip right over it and assume it's AI. Real lyrics are a lot more nuanced.

[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 39 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Corporate country music. Bo Burnham specifically wrote a song about it (lyrics link, since the song is technically a podcast episode w/ no accessibility).

Americana/folk, like Dolly Parton and Woody Guthrie are a far cry from the fox-news-to-a-melody garbage that gets put on country stations.

It’s the musical equivalent of John Wayne vs John Brown.

PS: Fun fact - Woody Guthrie wrote a scathing song about Fred Trump, so the war between the working class and that cursed name goes back at least a century.

[–] reddig33@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago

Came here to say the same. It’s all just the same song with the same words rearranged.

Country. I associate with my upbringing in Klan country where I went to Robert E. Lee High School and got to experience federally mandated desegregation busing, which doesn't do shit to decrease racial divisions in housing but does drive white people into religious schools in droves to avoid letting their children ever mingle with minorities. They fucking love that country music, though. I will never listen to it voluntarily if I can avoid it.

[–] BluuTato@sh.itjust.works 28 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Christmas music, because I worked in retail and had to listen to it 8 hours a day for months.

[–] Rebecca_Corndogs@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

Fuck you Mariah Carey

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[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)

This is gonna sound like a pretty weird train of thought, but I cannot listen to that Pharrell Williams song "Happy" because I'm my brain has forever connected it to the time I had some bad pea salad from a local place, which completely ruined both of them for me. Every time I hear it, even in my own head, my stomach starts churning a little and I eventually start to feel like I wanna throw up. Thankfully that song has died and I hope to god nobody ever revives it.

[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 2 points 14 hours ago

I remember hanging out with a friend who was telling me about his decaying relationship with this song playing in the background.

shudders

[–] AngryRobot@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I guess you probably hate Weird Al' Tacky too, don't you??

[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago

I haven't heard that one, or if I have it's been long enough that I don't remember it.

[–] Denjin@lemmings.world 11 points 2 days ago

Lost Prophets. I'm usually one for separating art from artist but fuck that baby raping piece of shit and if a member of your band rapes babies there's no way you're oblivious to the whole thing.

Fuck Ian Watkins, fuck those that ignored and/or enabled his despicably evil behaviour because he was your pay day.

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

Maybe music that reminfs me of people I hate. Perhaps I'm being petty though.

[–] DrSteveBrule@mander.xyz 12 points 2 days ago

I believe every genre is filled with good and bad music. I used to think I didn't like country or reggae but it was really just the mainstream music of those genres I disliked. Mainstream country has a lot of stereotypical lyrics and mainstream reggae has a lot of slow single chord riffs. But after a bit of digging I found artists and songs that explore those genres in more unique ways.

[–] WhatGodIsMadeOf@feddit.org 18 points 2 days ago

"Patriotic" rap.

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 15 points 2 days ago

Hillsong, Elevation and especially Bethel music - basically "Christian Worship" music mass produced for money and has loads of dodgy theology

[–] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago (2 children)

There's certain classical music that goes into very high notes, it hurts my ears and I can't stand it. My dad loves classical music and I feel bad not being able to share his joy for it, though there is some that I don't mind.

Also metal for same type of reason, some guitar noises just hurt my ears.

Unrestrained treble can drive people temporarily insane

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[–] zxqwas@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 days ago

Best reason, and a legitimate reason to not listen to anything. What exactly is the point of consuming art you don't enjoy?

[–] cloudless@piefed.social 10 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Metal - basically I don't enjoy loud music.

[–] Tattorack@lemmy.world 31 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] pwalshj@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

Welp, there's the jacket for the next single.

It just doesn't resonate with me. I've heard people say it's an outlet for certain feelings, but I guess I just don't feel those feelings very strongly.

[–] Semester3383@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

You don't have to listen to it loud...

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago

I can’t listen to Tim Minchin’s “White Wine in the Sun” because I’ll bawl like a baby

[–] hedge_lord@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

Songs where someone is singing about loving (not in a platonic way) their "baby". I'm just unable to get it out of my head

[–] Zachariah@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Saxophone. It should always be replaced by vocals, strings, or trumpets. Maybe synths.

[–] DeadPixel@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 days ago

This is blasphemy!

[–] DrSteveBrule@mander.xyz 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Try given Kamasi Washington a listen!

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago

Cherokee, performed by Kamasi Washington, is one of my favorite songs and I don't usually like jazz like that. It is amazing.

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[–] tatterdemalion@programming.dev 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

100 Gecs makes me cringe. It's mostly the lyrics and the nasal auto-tune voice.

Don't get me wrong, I can enjoy heavy auto-tune a la T-Pain, but that's quite more enjoyable to me.

[–] charade_you_are@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

All music I don't like which is a lot. I'm annoyingly sensitive to music that doesn't click with me and it'll actually make me angry. Luckily, I only hate 90% of music that exists but the other 10% is pretty damn entertaining.

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