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[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 day ago
[–] Breezy@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

As a fat person, 300lb+ lbs, i think its fine to call us out and make fun of us. Mostly we either dont give a shit and will do what we want, or might just be on the verge of change and 1 more person calling us out could jumpdrive our selfrespct enough in order to make a difference.

[–] dejected_warp_core@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I appreciate that. Personally, the photo kicks my sense of empathy into overdrive instead.

I don't see two targets of ridicule. I see two cases of metabolic syndrome,with type II and heart attacks waiting to destroy their bodies, and over 6000 calories of raw sugar in tow on wheels, because they're too weak to carry their snack around. And they likely got there from self-medicating with food for what's likely trauma, depression, and/or other mental illness. They need a rescue party.

[–] foggianism@lemmy.world 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Is this picture taken by a satellite?

[–] YesButActuallyMaybe@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 days ago

Queue al bundy jokes

[–] argh_another_username@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Do you still have gallon of soda? I remember seeing soda by the gallon in the 80s. Now, the biggest bottle I see in Canada is 2L.

[–] myrrh@ttrpg.network 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

...i don't buy soft drinks but i feel like two-liter bottles were supplanted by three-liter bottles in the 2000s as the new standard size...

[–] PraiseTheSoup@midwest.social 1 points 1 day ago

Biggest I've seen is a 3L bottle of Faygo but I think that's a upper Midwest regional brand and come to think of it I haven't seen one in years.

I've seen cheaper brands sold in bottles larger than 2L. (PA, US)

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 28 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Holy shit there's a lot of angry fat American people in the comments.

No-one is mocking them being fat. We're mocking America for having such a shit culture and food regulation that lots of people end up with this problem.

It's not funny to mock a specific hungry kid, but you can make jokes about famine.

You shouldn't trigger someone's personal traumas of rape, but comedians can joke about sexual assault.

I think blurring their faces would've made this less a joke and more shaming. So idk what the issue is.

[–] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Hey not cool. Don't ever call me an American.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I mean, I apologise if it came off like that. I didn't exclude the chance of angry fat non-American people though, but that's kinda on you (and the other comments that may actually joke about fat people, not just you) , since I think we're making fun of America, not obesity.

[–] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

😂 sorry I was attempting humor.

Source: Am American.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Thou succeeds in which I could not.

[–] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 days ago

Big Gulps, huh? Alright!

Well, see ya later!

[–] AGD4@lemmy.world 54 points 3 days ago (26 children)

Nobody wants to be in that shape, nor to be photographed and mocked online like this.

My heart goes out to those folks, and I sincerely hope they can find the help they need to turn around their unhealthy lifestyles.

[–] leftzero@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Speaking as a disgusting fat bastard myself, feel free to criticise and mock me as much as you want.

Maybe it'll finally motivate me to do something about it.

[–] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Right, that'll work.

You'll probably make more progress when you learn to accept and respect yourself. Losing a lot of weight is extraordinarily difficult and it'll take as long or longer than the amount of time it took to put it on. You'll have regressions and make mistakes. Your key will be neck breakingly slow but constant progress and being gentle on yourself, plus being surrounded by supportive people. I'm sorry you feel that you're disgusting but I don't.

My mom lost 70 pounds and then gained back 20 in the last 5 years. That's less than a pound per month, a 100 calorie deficit. She still eats a lot but I think that's what makes her successful. She has a long way to go but I never forget to tell her she's kicking ass because she is. You'd tell her that too. Now tell yourself.

[–] Taldan@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Everyone is different. For me, mockery was much more motivating. While it was not a good place, browsing r/FatPeopleHate was what got me to finally get in shape

Lost it a lot faster than it took to get it, for the record

[–] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago

Well, sounds like you got the result you wanted for the wrong reason. But glad it worked out

Self hate is approximately as good a motivator as ridicule, ie a negative one.

Depression or whatever the damage is isn't solved with more trauma.

To start climbing out of your hole your first step is forgiving yourself for not being perfect.

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[–] pyre@lemmy.world 20 points 3 days ago (8 children)
[–] blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 22 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

An obscenely large soda from 7-eleven. The cups in the image aren't Big Gulps technically, but they are very large drink containers, and OP is using the term Big Gulp loosely

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[–] ayyy@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Holy shit this comment section is a train wreck.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago

Train wrecks? Those things America has a lot of nowadays that all safety regulation is being deleted as we speak?

Uh, I hear ya, buddy.

Freight Trains: Last Week Tonight with John Oliver (HBO)

[–] paraphrand@lemmy.world 15 points 3 days ago

At least they are outside.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 30 points 3 days ago (7 children)

Imma be real, those things full of ice and water are godly on a hot day

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[–] baguettefish@discuss.tchncs.de 18 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (4 children)

wow these replies are landmines so i will just be confused about how you even get a picture from that angle. the place doesn't look urban or like it would have any high-rises, and the USA (assuming this is it) also doesn't really do tall parking garages. and it very much looks like the photo was taken from outside.

[–] brisk@aussie.zone 60 points 3 days ago

Taken from the driver's seat of a new pickup truck?

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