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[–] OhmsLawn@lemmy.world 30 points 1 week ago

Still do?

I don't drink anymore, but yeah. Those people you see in dive bars are often daily customers.

[–] Grass@sh.itjust.works 26 points 1 week ago

Some of the older old dudes I've worked with used to. I actually convinced one of the avocado toast whiners he was wrong based on bar cost now and back in his day

[–] TheLazyNerd@europe.pub 26 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It depends on (sub)culture, but mainly yes.

Bars were often cheap too, so going to the bar multiple times per week was not expensive. The reason these bars were cheap:

  • Outside of touristic areas ground is cheap.
  • If the local government allows it, the bar can on the owners property.
  • The owner and customers were often friends, so friend pricing would be standard.
  • Health and safety regulations used to be less strict. Allowing for lower prices.
  • The bar was open whenever the owner wanted, instead of on a fixed schedule, making it more easy to combine with a second job.
  • Bars rarely had a menu, they just sold whatever they had in stock. Today customers would be upset if an item on the menu was not in stock.

Also,

  • Parks used to be less safe and less well maintained, so buying drinks in the supermarket and consuming them in the park wasn't really an option.
  • The internet wasn't a thing, so people who wanted to spend the evening gaming had to do so in the bar.
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[–] PillowTalk420@lemmy.world 23 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's fairly common right now, too.

[–] Psythik@lemmy.world 21 points 1 week ago (27 children)

How can anyone afford to go to bars anymore? Drinking at home is much cheaper.

[–] notgold@aussie.zone 10 points 1 week ago

Depends what your drinking and how fast. You find places that have cheaper drinks tend to be the ones where there's more regulars

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[–] AlecSadler@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Umm, I'm in my 40s and I do... 😬

Granted it isn't like Cheers, I just need the change of scenery since I work from home 10-20 hours a day.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I work from home 10-20 hours a day.

That's fair. Drinking at one's workplace is usually frowned upon.

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[–] pdqcp@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yup, it used to be a lot more common, Not Just Bikes has a great video on this subject too and how our car dependency made most of them disappear:

The Great Places Erased by Suburbia (the Third Place)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VvdQ381K5xg
non YT https://yewtu.be/watch?v=VvdQ381K5xg

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[–] foodandart@lemmy.zip 20 points 1 week ago

Yeah. My husband went out to the pub 6 nights a week. He's no longer drinking - quit last year - finally! (I quit in 2009)

Seriously, alcohol is overrated.

[–] J52@lemmy.nz 20 points 1 week ago

Yes, even in countries like Austria. Saddest thing was that many men that were 'great pals' while drinking turned into abusers when coming home, making their families co-dependents and their lives hell.

[–] postmateDumbass@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago

Remember, no internet before this millenium, 3 to 7 television channels before cable, no TV before the 50s...

[–] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.world 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

Pub culture is definitely a thing in the UK though and I wish we had some of these neighborhood meeting places in the US too. They aren't necessarily a place to get shitfaced but to get a simple meal and a beer.

Fraternal/Sororal organizations used to be a big thing up to the 60s with the Elks clubs, Odd Fellows, Shriners, etc. We've lost a lot of that community glue.

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[–] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

When I was younger I did this and it was the best part of my life. Having a place to go where everyone was welcome was very nice

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 14 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Did everybody know your name?

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[–] Crashumbc@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago

A lot of blue collar workers went straight to the bar after work 3-4 days a week.

I did sheet metal back in the 90's for a year. Typical day... start at 6, off at 2:30, bar from 3-5. Pretty much everyday.

[–] the_riviera_kid@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I worked in a bar for a few years and I saw the same people everyday. They would even come in on holidays if the bar was open. Some of them would blow their whole paycheck, I always thought it was kinda sad.

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[–] kerrigan778@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Used to be? This is still common in many industries and localities.

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[–] TheReturnOfPEB@reddthat.com 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

beer used to be a lot cheaper

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[–] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago

Yes, and it's still pretty common.

[–] pokexpert30@jlai.lu 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (4 children)

For référence, there is an ancient in my village of 300 inhabitants that isbsaying that in the 60's, there were SIX bars in the village. For 300 inhabitants.

So I guess so.

Also for reference we only have a bread machine now, no shops of any kind.

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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 13 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Yes. In my fathers time men would go there often for lunch and after work. I think some went home and then went over for an hour or two. Later it was still common but someone who did it all the time would be called a barfly but almost everyone did like friday night and pretty often thursday or saturday. Its diminished since and more and more bars have to sorta be restaurants or dance clubs or band venues.

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[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 13 points 1 week ago

I don’t know about every night but I know plenty of dudes who have a watering hole they go to weekly.

[–] village604@adultswim.fan 13 points 1 week ago (2 children)

There's a reason prohibition happened. Alcohol consumption back then was 3x higher than it is now, so it was not uncommon for men to get off work, go blow their paychecks at the bar, then go home and beat their wives.

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[–] Corporal_Punishment@feddit.uk 12 points 1 week ago

Worked in a pub in the UK.

Yes, we had regulars. They'd be there nearly every night after work for a quick pint before heading home.

Very few of them would stay for more than one or two though

[–] Rentlar@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

Yes, and in some places especially small towns, it is for some people, since it's the main hangout spot (3rd place) in town.

Though I don't think young people do that as much, "regulars" tend to mean 1-3 times a week. My university had a bar that had a "ritual" where Friday afternoons it would be a completely full house.

[–] iamacar@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

A lot of bars would have tons of cash on Fridays and bartenders would cash paychecks. Customers would pay off the tab and start a new one. Idk how common it is anymore. Most jobs I’ve had for a while will give a paper check if they have to, but discourage it as much as possible.

[–] updn@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago

I do. Most other people that come here are regulars also.

Not much else out there for community.

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