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A 13-year-old student was expelled from a Louisiana middle school after hitting a male classmate who she said created and shared a deepfake pornographic image of her, according to her family’s lawyers.

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[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 23 points 5 hours ago (4 children)

There are the obvious comments about trump being a pedo and all but I think there is also another subject at play here

The US loves to apply zero tolerance policies. Thesr sound impressive, "zeeerroooo tolerance, we will do everything to stop the bad guy!" But in reality it's just virtue signalling without doing anything about the real problem.

Zero tolerance policies make it that the institution doesn't have to deal with any real problems. A student is a potential problem? Expel them, arrest them, get rid of them. This way, you don't have to deal with anything and fuck that student, who cares about them?

A 12 year girl writes on her desk that she likes a clasmate? Arrest her with handcuffs and all and throw her in jail. (True story)

A girl doesn't do her homework? Send her to something that effectively is a jail. Why spend time to support her, try to figure out what are the causes behind her problems? Just get rid of it. Eto tolerance, baby!

Somebody at school or work get bullied forever and finally snaps and hits back? Investigating WHY would take up resources, time, effort, it would cost money that can go to the shareholders and the CEO. Just fire that person, problem gone. That the bullies remain is not a problem, who cares about that? That that, over time, makes ymthe environment in your organization more and more toxic is not your problem.

I see all these US mass shootings done by young kids and young adults, and I just wonder. I know that the easy access to guns is an enormous issue that a handful of assholes don't want to fix, but these zero tolerance policies too have a lot of influence on this, I think.

The USA needs to start dealing with their problems instead of just expelling and jailing every person who has a problem

[–] GarboDog@lemmy.world 7 points 1 hour ago

As a heavily bullied person and severely abused kid at home, the Zero Tollerance policy never helped us even when we protected ourselves.

Also to anyone who says "what about CPS?" they came to our house quite often and were bribed just as much (use imagination)

[–] RedFrank24@lemmy.world 9 points 5 hours ago

Schools don't actually want to solve the problem of bullying, because doing so would involve charging the parents of bullies.

[–] ArmchairAce1944@discuss.online 5 points 5 hours ago

Your proposed actual investigations and solutions would solve more shootings than gun control... but some gun laws wouldn't hurt, either.

[–] minkymunkey_7_7@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

These are all the principles America was founded and built upon though. Modern interpretations to the same document.

[–] TigerAce@lemmy.dbzer0.com 41 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

The US president is a pedophile. Victim blaming is a standard now, pedophilia and kiddy pron is protected these days. We're living in a really shitty dystopia these days.

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[–] cley_faye@lemmy.world 29 points 9 hours ago (5 children)

If I was her dad, I'd be asking to take candid photo of the staff that took that decision, for no particular reasons, and see them stumble. But apparently "boys will be boys" remain strong :/

I think it's time to start actually protecting and caring for children instead of using them as a scapegoat.

[–] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 20 points 7 hours ago (3 children)

My high school bullies broke into my house when I was home alone and only left because my dog went after them. My mom called the police and the school and they gave the whole "boys will be boys" speech. We moved to a new school district shortly after.

[–] rollerbang@lemmy.world 1 points 56 minutes ago

Civil lawsuit?

[–] Balldowern@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 hour ago

This is why you need the second amendment. Those boys needed some lead poisoning.

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[–] Draegur@lemmy.zip 15 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Honestly? Not being in that school anymore is probably a good thing, especially for her. Record be damned; not one single fucking thing that i went through in school went on to matter to anyone but me. And unfortunately all that stayed relevant to me was the trauma. so, yeah, I'd say NOT being forced to suffer in that concentration daycamp full of shitbag crotchgoblins who hate her is an improvement.

TL;DR:
Good for her.

Furthermore,
I hope her ex-classmate never forgets that punch and re-lives it every time the thought to deepfake porn of someone resurfaces.

[–] NihilsineNefas@slrpnk.net 52 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

So a boy made child p**n of a classmate and wasn't punished but the victim of the crime was?

Americans really living up to their president's standards eh

[–] StannisDMannis@lemmy.today 39 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

By the school.

The police charged the boy and not the girl.

Fucked up world where the school is bad and the cops good.

[–] NihilsineNefas@slrpnk.net 7 points 8 hours ago

At least the kid is getting charged but what the fuck

[–] FinishingDutch@lemmy.world 38 points 13 hours ago

I hope her parents took her out for pizza, ice cream and signed her up for a kickboxing class. Because I would be proud if she did that, honestly.

She asked them to stop, the school did nothing. Well, then it’s time to handle it yourself.

[–] Pyr_Pressure@lemmy.ca 50 points 14 hours ago (12 children)

Schools with zero tolerance policies are bullshit.

Sometimes kids hit other kids. They're figuring shit out.

Plus sometimes situations deserve a little violence.

Give a warning and expell the boy for the AI image instead. That does a hell of a lot more damage than a light smacking.

[–] mcv@lemmy.zip 25 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Zero tolerance? Except for deepfake porn, apparently.

The parents should sue the school for tolerating that.

[–] ImADifferentBird@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 21 minutes ago

According to the article, the parents are suing the school. Which is good.

[–] smeenz@lemmy.nz 27 points 13 hours ago

Everything with a zero tolerance policy is bullshit and just an excuse to avoid having to actually consider nuance and individual situations.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 10 points 12 hours ago

I got the same punishment in highschool for climbing over a table in the lunchroom to start a fight with someone who bullied me as I did for showing up five minutes late to class. It's all such bullshit. (The punishment was two days of in school suspension.)

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[–] StannisDMannis@lemmy.today 7 points 10 hours ago

Girlboss energy

[–] gustofwind@lemmy.world 52 points 17 hours ago (11 children)

She was 100% in the right and this is not morally ambiguous

We need to find out how to raise boys that cant even conceive of this kind of conduct

[–] mic_check_one_two@lemmy.dbzer0.com 33 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

We need to find out how to raise boys that cant even conceive of this kind of conduct

While I agree with the sentiment on the surface, naïveté doesn’t solve the root issue. We need to raise boys who violently reject people who inevitably conceive of this kind of conduct. Sociopaths and misogynists will always exist. That’s why it’s important for a healthy society to root them out as soon as they show their true colors.

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[–] CaptPretentious@lemmy.world 28 points 15 hours ago

I hope they win the lawsuit.

I have a feeling it was the oh-so-popular "0 tolerance" policy that she was punished and he wasn't. Because the policy didn't cover what he did. And schools these days love to avoid accountability or being adults when it matters.

[–] Gorilladrums@lemmy.world 10 points 13 hours ago

A very big issue with our education system is that there's no nuance in it. The way the system is set up makes it so that schools are incentivized to compete with each other to please the district, and the district to please the state. That's how they get their funding. What this leads to is schools putting their best interests ahead of their students. If schools prioritized the students, they would've taken the context of the story and punished the bully and not the victim. However, since they prioritize themselves, they tried to keep the story under wraps to avoid bad PR, and expelled her regardless of context so they can distant themselves and save their image.

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