I'm afraid that icankillpenguins might be right. That most people don't really know what a server is, so when asked to pick one they freeze
My thoughts, numbered only for potential referencing
- I guess for now it could be managed by hand which server they get routed to. But that's not an ideal solution IMO
- I think that idea of checking response speeds is a good idea
- keeping option to read the instance's description and choose another one is a good idea
- theoretically, joining a general instance vs an opinionated one might not work for those that are not opinionated or are opinionated the other way. So I think it should be discussed if instances should be able to mark themselves as general or opinionated and the initial choice be from among the general ones
- it would be a good idea to somehow rotate between proposed instances based on MAU or some other metric

