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Everyone's experience is different, and things ARE absolutely more difficult in recent decades than many decades ago.
That said, I remember around the time I was graduating and how it felt like the vast majority of everyone I knew was baffled by my willingness to move far away (for the job), and how many of them refused to move away from home (where there weren't many job options for degrees).
There's also choices to make to do projects or a thesis around real productive ideas to build something to show off to employers. There's opportunities to practice interviewing, shadow careers, and make yourself presentable and stand out for your field, and again I just remember very few who actually put in the effort and wanted to appear well-rounded amd with a portfolio of sorts to distinguish themselves. Most of my classmates seemed to just want to check boxes and expect a career to happen.
Some people in my personal experience seem unwilling to do what's necessary to make their degree worthwhile.
Yeah you may be able to get [insert degree] at [random local college], but a lot of the good careers are not going to be where you got the degree, amd you really have to find ways to convince employers why you're different.
Then on top of all of that, there's just some luck as well. And I know in some ways I also just got lucky in landing a job.
Meanwhile, ever since I moved and started a career, I have been surrounded by incredible degree-wielding people from all over the world. So clearly lots of people do find success and they are doing great jobs.
Great jobs? Doing what? Licking boots?
Uprooting your entire life, saying goodbye to all of your friends, family, community, home, all for the pursuit of some dollars, that's insanity. Only in a sick world where money is our master is that viewed otherwise.
Uprooting for adventure is one thing, uprooting for work is not the same.
Your comment sounds like some AI generated LinkedIn status and it makes me feel sick.
There's more to careers than just money. The distribution of jobs in different industry sectors, job specialties, etc. aren't going to be uniform throughout the world, so many types of jobs will require people to move.
It's not even about money. It's about wanting to work in something specific that isn't as easily available in the town you happened to be born in.
That's a pretty strong reaction to the simple idea that maybe living your entire life within a 30 minute drive of where you were born isn't the best way to experience this life. You don't have to want it, but is it that much to ask to simply understand that some other people want it?
My hometown is, like, fine. I could've stayed. But its state government is insane, the dominant local industries and companies don't really fit my moral framework, and the social aspect pushes people into a car-based lifestyle that I'm not particularly interested in. I left for a job, but I also was just looking for a reason to leave.
You were looking for a reason to leave. I covered that in my comment, "Uprooting for adventure is one thing".
OP's comment reads like sigma male bullshit, essentially saying "I worked harder and smarter than everyone else, they just didn't have the work ethic I do". It's wank. It repulses me, therefore the phrase "makes me feel sick".
It's not about work ethic. It's an openness to new things, and a willingness to coordinate and plan things.
And seeing "moving away" as a huge sacrifice, to where you'd tend to describe it as "uprooting your life," is a particular worldview that you're entitled to, but one you should be aware that many other people don't share.
You're attributing a lot of unspoken values in that comment that I don't really think are there, and I suspect it's because you place a much higher value in staying close to home than the typical person does, and because you seem to elevate the purpose of a career to primarily be maximizing one's own money.
So take a step back. Reread that comment with the revisited assumption that some people choose careers for reasons completely different from money, and that people don't feel a strong need to stay in the same city where they grew up. It's just career advice at that point.
Mate, you got so much patience and empathy to be able to respond and explain. Love who you are and who you have become. I absolutely would have walked away from a negative comment and you are so capable to reiterate points to a random internet comment.