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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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I have always thought that I have a very terrible memory, but on a second though I realize that I remember things very well, even the daydreams I have on a regular basis.

I have... How is it called? "Maladaptive daydreaming"?

What really happens is that I have become accustomed to mistrusting my memory because of how difficult it is for me to distinguish whether what I remember really happened or whether I imagined it.

I usually don't think much of it because I assume it doesn't cause me any big problems, but maybe this memory thing is a wake-up call...

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[–] fakir@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Hmm, I can relate. Memory is leaky, like your dreams can mix in, so don't trust memory, and that's fair. What's the alternative, like are you gonna stop daydreaming? Can you even stop daydreaming? I don't think so. You can only accept / embrace who you are.

[–] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I was thinking about trying to stop doubting my memory. To trust more that what I remember happened, and if it didn't, to accept it and move on. I could also take measures, like telling myself "I'm doing this" to make the difference between what I really did and what I imagined.

[–] fakir@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago

Ah fair, trust your memory more, yes. Reality check, like biting your finger to make sure you're not dreaming, hard to keep doing lol.