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[–] Saleh@feddit.org 28 points 3 weeks ago (13 children)

You should know when it is appropriate to ask and when not:

Don'ts:

  • complete strangers
  • people who cannot retreat, e.g. cashiers, waiters and the like, on a busy train/bus in an elevator etc.
  • people clearly not in a space to socialize.
  • asking for sex
  • being ambigious about intentions

Do's:

  • people you held a normal conversation with before
  • in a space where they are comfortable and either party can leave easily if things get awkward
  • being clear about it being a date
  • public place with individual privacy, e.g. going out for a coffee
  • no alcohol or other drugs
[–] Halosheep@lemm.ee 8 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (4 children)

Don't forget the most important 2:

  • Be attractive

  • Don't be unattractive

[–] S_H_K@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Most women in my experience find a clean well dressed man more attrattive that a hot sitnky styless mofo. Take care of yourself. Face card can decline gentleman privilege is real.

[–] AltheaHunter@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 weeks ago

every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man

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