Off My Chest
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She sounds like someone who has no understanding of what autistic people are like, and was applying the standards of a neurotypical relationship to her interactions with you. She could and perhaps should have taken it upon herself to learn, but your dad also really dropped the ball by not preparing her.
my dad thinks i’m eccentric or awkward but he doesn’t believe i have autism even with my diagnosis, my stepmom has gotten better but she’s still a bit rude
Yeah, neither of them is doing you any favor with their beliefs trumping a diagnosis.