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[–] _cnt0@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago (14 children)

I criticized singular they/them for increasing language ambiguity and suggested replacing it with something new like xe/xer multiple times. The reply is usually a shitstorm and downvote tornado. I've given up on that front.

[–] UnpledgedCatnapTipper@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago (13 children)

Probably because singular "they" predates singular "you" grammatically. Should we go back to using thou and thee instead of the singular you as well?

[–] _cnt0@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Doesn't feel like you want to have an honest argument when you ask how far we should go back on a proposal about going forward and don't address the single motivator ambiguity.

[–] UnpledgedCatnapTipper@piefed.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Correct, because there is no argument to be had. Intentionally refusing to use someone's pronouns is unacceptable, every time, with 0 exceptions. If there's a dire need to be explicitly clear you're talking about a single person, you could just use their name in that instance.

[–] FreedomAdvocate@lemmy.net.au 1 points 1 week ago

You don’t get to decide how other people refer to you. I’m sorry but you don’t have that authority. You can dislike people using the “wrong” pronouns, but you cannot compel the usage of the ones you want to be called because of your beliefs. If I say my pronouns are “your majesty” it’s not unacceptable if you don’t use them.

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