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She literally called me at the time of the appointment to tell me she can't see me. She was so apologetic, but was like "I absolutely can treat you, but I'm not allowed by your insurance". Fuck this country.

Update: I went to urgent care. Before leaving home, I called to be sure they would accept my insurance (Aetna). They said yes.. After arriving for my appointment, they told me they do not accept my insurance. I will simply leave without paying.

Final Update: I can understand that that differences in physical biology demand different attention. That's not what I'm complaining about. It's the way it's set up. I was told that at my appointment. Why not just refer me to a specialist? The website could've even just referred me to urgent care (yes, my insurance requires a primary care physician's referral for urgent care, according to the urgent care facility). But, no, their goal is to obfuscate and irritate until the patient gives you and pays out-of-pocket.

I was able to receive care at a cost I could not afford. I won't discuss what I had to do to "find" the money to pay for care and prescriptions. That being said, the condition I was diagnosed with was more serious than a simple infection, and I'm glad that I saw a doctor. I need further treatment and just hope I can get insurance to cover any of it.

If you're an American reading this, please consider ways to get involved in organizing in support of Medicare For All in your community. Here is one resource I have found. We don't need to live like this. We deserve better. Stay safe and healthy, friends.

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[–] LostCause@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago

So wtf, they want you to let it get worse until that infection spreads to kidneys or something and then pay 100x the amount to an emergency room? How does that make sense for their profits anyway?

Treatment is just a test to confirm and some antibiotics I think. Hope you can find some other way to get treated.

[–] Rhabuko@feddit.de 1 points 2 years ago

That's so fucked up! I'm sorry OP.

[–] BlackSkinnedJew@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 2 years ago

What exactly is a UTI for males?

[–] ivlarac@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

It’s painful to read stories like this. I really feel for all the people who can’t afford to see a doctor whenever they need it.

I live in Spain and here we have a social security network paid by the people through taxes. It has its flaws, as probably everything has, but we have people here saying that it doesn’t work and we’d be better paying for private insurances to get better attention and pay less taxes.

The thing is that today a private insurance can cost 50-100€ per person, something completly affordable, but what the people saying this doesn’t take into account is that the private companies have a backup with the national health service. The private insurance is great for small things, seeing your physician, a small surgery… but if you have a serious problem they’ll send you to the national health service to be treated.

I hope you can have a proper treatment for your illness and that it doesn’t cost you an arm and a leg. I also hope that your country can find a way to help everyone equally and not just those who can afford it.

[–] smokinjoe@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago

I think most everyone knows this would have to be in the USA.

Sorry OP, I really hope those greedy assholes just made some shitty mistake.

[–] FuzzyDoublePumper@kbin.social 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Hypothetically, in an emergency situation, you could get fish antibiotics from your local pet store. Not the best idea but an untreated infection isn't good either.

[–] nameless_prole@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago

Real life dystopia shit.

To anyone considering this, just remember that there is a reason that the FDA exists. Fish antibiotics aren't FDA regulated, so you really have no idea what you're taking and how much.

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[–] Jo@readit.buzz 0 points 2 years ago

I'm not USian but I'd be astonished if that was legal, even in the barbaric hellhole that is the US healthcare system.

Ask her to put it in writing and then challenge the insurance company.

[–] Liontigerwings@kbin.social 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

What kind of facility ask for a diagnosis before care. You tell me if I have a UTI.

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[–] UnicornKitty@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

Since nobody addressed this, if you (anyone reading this) have a bladder infection, go to the women's section of any pharmacy. Usually somewhere near pads/tampons, and find a box of this blessed relief. It has cleared up all but the most stubborn infections I've had.

Azo

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[–] emc@kbin.social 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I’m not going to defend health insurance companies, but this is not because of your insurance. CVS will only see patients with simple medical problems because they 1) are not equipped for more in-depth diagnosis and treatment and 2) don’t want the liability associated with such. UTIs in males are medically complicated, by definition which has a very specific meaning. Males don’t just get UTIs like females do, because the male urethra is significantly longer, providing significantly more protection from bacterial retrogression to the bladder. The long story short is that if you are a male with a UTI you need to go to an actual healthcare facility and see a qualified professional, not an NP/PA at your local CVS.

Source: am a pharmacist

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[–] Texas_Hangover@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Just tell them you identify as female. They won't be able to say shit unless they start throwing religion at you.

[–] Sunrosa@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Gotta be careful doing this. It gives them more ammunition behind the vitriol of transgender people.

[–] TskUghPfftUhh@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

He shouldn't have to pretend to be part of a minority group in order to be treated for something.

[–] Texas_Hangover@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago

It works for getting jobs too!

[–] doink@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Have you since received treatment? Bad news, men don't really get UTIs.

When I had it, it was because of kidney stones.

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[–] Froyn@kbin.social -1 points 2 years ago

This shouldn't be infuriating at all. As others have said a Nurse Practitioner is not a Medical Doctor. Go to the "clinic", whether its a hole in the wall $25 place or a local hospital with a clinic attached. A Medical Doctor can help and can even write prescriptions that include the words "medically necessary" which trumps most insurance denials.

[–] mirror_slap@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago

Get D.Mannose and take like 2 grams a day till it's gone. Mileage may vary, but it cured my wife of recurrent UTIs after more than 20 infections.

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