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[–] panchzila@lemmy.world 30 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Trees are a luxury, growing something like that takes time. I hope they really have a good reason for doing what they did.

[–] AshDene@kbin.social 18 points 2 years ago (2 children)

And a public good. They keep things cooler when it's really hot out, keep things warmer when it's really cool out, mildly improve air quality, reduces noise pollution, provide measurable mental health benefits, and so on.

Around here removing big trees is illegal, on your property or not. I'm a fan.

Open soil instead of pavement also helps reduce flooding during heavy rainfall since the ground absorbs water instead of just making it run off to somewhere else.

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[–] torknorggren@sopuli.xyz 12 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The reason is probably "raking is work." I see this shit all the time in Florida, where we really need more shade trees.

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[–] socphoenix@midwest.social 4 points 2 years ago

Considering they also took out the shrubs I’m betting not, though that tree closest to the house the roots may have been affecting the foundation I guess.

[–] ShlorpianMafia@lemmy.world 24 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It legit looks like half of the weed dispensaries in my city. Who tf would actually do that to their home tho

[–] dismalnow@kbin.social 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (5 children)

I feel like the car in the picture is important context. I'm thinking that the home was turned into a business, and the pavement is for parking

[–] flyingschnitzel@kbin.social 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Ah yes, the rare parking without any car access.

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[–] HotsauceHurricane@lemmy.one 3 points 2 years ago

Yeah but the concrete is elevated. I don’t see how. Car can get up it.

[–] HawkMan@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Except there's not way to get a car up there.

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[–] RandoMcGuvins@kbin.social 19 points 2 years ago

Just steal the image and put the source in the body text. That way you're not redirecting everyone to reddit. Sort of defeats the purpose of the protests.

[–] Tagger@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Why don't they like trees?

[–] STRIKINGdebate2@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Capitalism has drained their soul. They don't think artistically. They don't think about nature. They don't see beauty. Their art is corporate art.

[–] brandacus@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

Capitalism is when ugly house

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[–] 5200@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (4 children)

The infuriation is not mild :(

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[–] jg1i@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I personally don't like it, but I respect their right to do whatever the fuck they want with their property. If they want a fugly house, then that's their right.

[–] Korne127@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Honestly, no. At least where I live, they're finally starting to do something against gravel gardens. They are illegal here (have been for decades but no-one did anything against it) and they're absolutely terrible for the environment and destroying green space (additionally to them being very bad for bees and further sealing the floor which is awful when any flood happens). Luckily people shouldn't be able to do absolutely everything they want if it hurts everyone so much.

[–] average650@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

How do you feel about HOAs?

[–] Korne127@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I'm not living in the US. As far as I know, it's something very ridiculous that every house needs to look absolutely the same (I feel the freedom). And no, what I wrote isn't "the same", mandating how every garden needs to look exactly the same is something entirely different to fighting against very specific "garden" styles that combat the environment and are bad for the infrastructure (see floods). I'm fine with people having their garden however they want and doing stuff, but it needs to be in certain boundaries, e.g. that you aren't allowed to seal all ground which is terrible for bees, the environment in its wholeness and dangerous during floods.

If there are some rare edge cases where many things depend on it and there are very good reasons to set a certain boundary but otherwise leave the freedom to do the own garden and house how they want, that's something different to just mandating that there is no possibility to choose anything about it's looks and destroy all creativity and uniqueness.

[–] average650@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Got it. HOAs get bad press for requiring every house to look the same, but the basic function they serve also includes preventing stuff like the above. How far they go depends on the HOA, but one that just prevents egregious stuff like the above isn't fundamentally different from one that requires near uniformity.

I just ask because lots of people hate HOAs, but this is one big reason they exist.

[–] flambonkscious@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I think it's the difference between principles and practices, and ultimately, the way people become small minded and ruin everything...

They're good in principle, but people get controlling, or agendas develop, etc. Not sure how one balances that properly. I guess it's partly exacerbated by the cultural extreme that Americans take freedom to (I'm not from the dis-US). Maybe the neighborhood as a committee would work better than one or two power couples?

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[–] axtualdave@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago

It's like they heard lawns were bad for the environment, but stopped listening at the part about replacing it with native plants.

[–] marswarrior@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I would have left the trees alone, but removed the grass and covered it with small black and grey stones. That way the trees would still look nice, and the rain water can still pass through the rocks and prevent flooding, unlike this mess. This looks like a business now, it’s not a home anymore.

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[–] ptz@dubvee.org 10 points 2 years ago

🎵 They paved paradise and put up a parking lot 🎵

[–] MoltenBoron@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago
[–] ekZepp@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

"Bad" taste for "bad" people 🤷‍♀️

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[–] lynny@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I mean I hate lawns as much as the next person, but I don't think the solution is to salt the earth and cover it in concrete.

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[–] mykl@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

The house was horrible enough to start with; a characterless inter-war bungalow with fake timbering and fake leaded glass. The conversion is just differently horrible.

For me it's the destruction of the garden that warrants it being here. I know it's the UK so the sun isn't always available (edit: just seen the Zoopla link, it's Bolton, so change "always" to "ever") , but losing shade and shelter like that is a tragedy in any climate.

[–] Gangreless@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Sure they didn't turn it into a shop? Those definitely look like they were made into display windows

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[–] catwhowalksbyhimself@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (3 children)

People are focusing on the house in the middle, but if you look at he whole picture, it isn't that one house. It's every single house on both streets. It's not just this specific owner. If this were the US, I'd suspect a HOA at work.

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[–] entropicshart@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Never understood homes that pave/block out all the greenery; makes the home depressing af all for saving some 30min of upkeep per week.

[–] Bannanable@lemmy.fmhy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

You don't even need that. Personally a overgrown garden looks better than no garden.

[–] Spacebar@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Dendrophobia? Agrostophobia? Botanophobia? All 3 wrapped into one tangle of neurosis?

[–] scott@lem.free.as 4 points 2 years ago

Range Rover... checks out.

[–] mondoman712@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago
[–] prettydarknwild@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

now its a gulag

[–] egeres@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

I just felt bad about what I did to my world in factorio for the first time ever :/

[–] hydra@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

It's been ruined.

[–] Cayenne05dingos@geddit.social 3 points 2 years ago

It looks like the whole neighborhood

[–] Groovygravygrape@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

100% agree this is a terrible looking house- I think the function of the raised platform must be because it's on a dangerous corner or intersection, so it acts as a safety structure from vehicles. They would've gotten special planning permission to do something like that.

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[–] AtheistAndroid@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Lol did you just link to a reddit post from Lemmy?

[–] marswarrior@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Yeah they did. it’s hilarious

[–] leaskovski@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

It should actually be an offence for someone to do this. That change from garden to hard standing will cause issues with any drains and probably cause flooding.

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