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[–] Archangel1313@lemmy.ca 27 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Why don't you just buy a new car?

[–] HornedMeatBeast@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

This.

I was at work and there was one guy that is well off, him and his sister don't really have to work, trust fund kids but he still works a regular job.

One guy keeps showing up late because his car is a clunker, breaks down quite regularly.

So this well off guy, who has multiple cars, just says... why don't you just buy a new car?

Everyone kind of stopped and just looked at him.

We were all in our mid-twenties at that time so nobody had any kind of savings.

[–] pezhore 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm about 43 years old and I literally just bought my first new car this year - and that was with a few years of saving/planning for a sub $30k car. Prior to that, every car was at least a decade old at purchase time, each one driven until they died.

It blows my mind how someone could just walk into a dealer and drop 70k, 80k, or way more on something "just for fun".

[–] HornedMeatBeast@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

This guy also used to have his car/s tuned and would race them, and because of this, the one he drove to work was too low to get into the employee parking which was across the road from the site.

So he used to park in the visitor parking area right by the entrance.

He had at least 1 other car that could get over that bump, so I assume he chose to use a car that forced him to use a closer parking spot.

I mean, great on him for working a regular job like the rest of us slobs, but he was a bit disconnected from reality.

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 1 week ago

If you don’t like it where you live, just move?

A dentist who earned ludicrous money couldn't fathom why I (minimum wage worker) couldn't afford £100 treatment. Bear in mind this was 2000 so 100 was waaaay more then. I explained it multiple times he didn't get it.

[–] putitoutwithyourbootsted@piefed.social 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

“it’s only sixty dollars” circa 2011

[–] whimsy@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] HornedMeatBeast@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

There's always money in the banana stand.

[–] PaulBunyan@lemm.ee 9 points 1 week ago

I worked at a cool party store on the edge of a college town. The school's football team made it to a prestigious bowl game across the country in an expensive area. The amount of middle to upper class people asking us near-minimum wage workers if we were flying out for the game was pretty painful.

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

A friend's roommate who graduated college late at 28 years old, and had never worked a job before, leveraged their extracurriculars into a management position at a local movie theater. Their parents were still paying for their health insurance, cell phone bill, apartment rent, groceries, etc. They totalled their car and their parents replaced it at no cost to them in two days.

"I don't get why [my subordinate] doesn't just quit. It's a shit job and they obviously hate it. I asked them and they said they had bills to pay, but really? You could just quit and be a little frugal until you find your next job."

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Be a little frugal in a tent behind the Walmart

[–] nucleative@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

I'll be heli-skiing this weekend, is it a good time for you to install my new theater audio system?

[–] ChillPenguin@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

"Well when I bought a house, interest rates were 15%." As they own multiple homes that appreciated value but cost as much as a popsicle stick when they bought them.

[–] atro_city@fedia.io 5 points 1 week ago

I'll be taking a break from work.

"That's cool, what will you be doing?"

A world trip on my dad's yacht.

"Wow, that's cool. How long?"

A year. To discover myself and other places. My boyfriend will come with me!


They had just finished uni, done an internship at the place I worked at, and hadn't enjoyed it. They were the second-richest person I had met. The other person complained about the trouble they were having getting some kind of piano into their top floor flat in the centre of Madrid, but it didn't quit beat a yacht.

[–] FollyDolly@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

My coworker was the bosses son. He was complaining that his dad had the top down on the convertible. The convertible they rented in their last family vacation to Mexico. He was too hot and it was too sunny. I was flabbergasted.

[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I took these classes to be qualified to teach Jewish classes for a thing. We're all like 16 here and the teacher had some sort of import export thing going on and needed to go to China for it (this was like ages ago) and so no classes next week. I jokingly suggested we just go with him. The other students started taking it seriously and started plans only for me to shrink and be all "it's far too expensive" and they got quiet when they remembered me and twin were very middle class and the rest of them were...well above that.