me_irl

Not my experience. Men hurt their little toe, act like they are about to die and then tell their heroic tale of survival for 10 years

Whenever men's emotions come up on the internet the comments turn into the edgiest im14andthisisdeep takes. "We bottle it up because nobody cares anyway" like dude if that's genuinely true for you then it's still your responsibility to find less shitty friends. If you decide you don't need that much consolation then that's ok too but you can be self-reliant without being bitter about it all day. Idk maybe I'm too harsh but it seems infantile to me. If you have that much built up grief you gotta work through that instead of hiding away a bottomless pit of sorrow that immediately takes center stage whenever you try to open up.