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A gaming community free from the hype and oversaturation of current releases, catering to gamers who wait at least 12 months after release to play a game. Whether it's price, waiting for bugs/issues to be patched, DLC to be released, don't meet the system requirements, or just haven't had the time to keep up with the latest releases.

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Feel free to replace "friends" with "anyone you know in real life" or even online groups you trust or are close with.

"They":

WOM marketing is highly effective as 88% of consumers trust friend recommendations over traditional media.

and my own personal experience; most games I have bought in the past 10 years have been off of recommendations from r/gamingsuggestions before Reddit went to crap and Lemmy came into existence; and even moreso when it is a personal friend recommending things to me.

Mods, feel free to nuke if this feels too close to advertising or better-suited for !videogamesuggestions@lemmy.zip (my own community); I mean it more as a discussion piece but I don't run the place.

EDIT: The "not" in the title is optional; I'm asking about both successful and failed recommendations.

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[–] Flamekebab@piefed.social 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Hotline Miami. Frustrating and tedious.

I generally don't take gaming recommendations from people I know because I've been burned too many times.

[–] orochi02@feddit.org 3 points 2 weeks ago

I loved the fast and rather unique gameplay but it definitely isnt for everyone. For me personally I didnt mind the trial and error and really liked how the Game presentation.

[–] rozodru@piefed.social 6 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Last of Us.

When the first one came out everyone was ranting and raving over it so I picked it up for my PS3. Granted the beginning of the game was an absolute gut punch and I thought I was hooked, I was not. I found the rest of the game so damn boring. I didn't like the story, I felt it was forced fed to the player, and honestly I just never bothered finishing it. for me it wasn't fun.

[–] fishos@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

For me it suffered from "show, don't tell" problems. There are numerous weeks long skips between scenes and you're just supposed to understand that Joel and Ellie became close during that time. But as a player, you're basically being asked to babysit someone you've known for 10 minutes. It was basically one long escort mission and the "OMG SO AMAZING SCENE" is.... giraffes walking by. Like really? That's what it takes to wow people? Some giraffes walking outside the building????

The world was a generic apocalypse setting, the "story" can be described in a few bullet points, and the big "emotional gut punch" at the end is so cliche.

I'll die on the hill that it didn't do a single groundbreaking thing. Nothing about the game wasn't already done before and better. It's the equivalent of a summer blockbuster movie: a fun mindless take on an idea but otherwise generic.

[–] Katana314@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

I ended up giving up at one of the clicker sequences.

The game lore says they’re blind and navigate by hearing. The game code does not.

[–] anticonnor@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Vampire the Masquerade: Bloodlines I didn’t get around to playing this game until about a decade after its release, and I seriously don’t understand who could find that game enjoyable except 13yo edgelords.

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[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

There's a lot of games people recommend me based on cozy things which is good cause I do like them.

Then they get confused when I'm going deep into the Warhammer or the rogue likes/lites cause those are not very cozy.

And I do not like visual novels despite being in the demographic.

[–] dylanmorgan@slrpnk.net 4 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

This is kind of tangential to the question, but an incredibly irritating former friend would not shut the fuck up about Elden Ring for months after it came out and kept telling me to get it. I told him I didn’t like souls-like games and he said ER was “different” without explaining how. I still haven’t played it, even with recommendations from other people I trust. Same guy ensured I’ll never play Death Stranding, too.

[–] AlexanderTheDead@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I personally see Elden Ring as the second-most "Dark Souls" game after Dark Souls 1. It's the first of the FromSoft soulslikes with an open world afaik, and while Dark Souls 1 doesn't have an "open" world, exactly, everything is so well-connected that it feels like an open world to me.

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[–] HollowNaught@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

Have a friend who is obsessed with the borderlands series. Played through the pre-sequel with him. Was not a good time

He wanted to play through 3 with me after, and I noped the hell out

[–] ramble81@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

Dragon’s Age Origins. Had a friend tell me how it was their favorite franchise and that specifically was the best game, such amazing lore, gameplay, etc.

Couldn’t even make it past the first quest before I hung it out.

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[–] Renacles@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Everyone seems to love Alan Wake. I played it recently, but didn't enjoy it.

I feel like I'm missing something.

[–] caseofthematts@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

Alan Wake is a game that should be right up my alley.

Unfortunately, the gameplay left me wanting. I enjoyed the story for the most part, but the pacing of the game overall was strange, and other than getting light grenades, the gameplay doesn't really change much or shake anything up from the beginning to the end.

I enjoyed the world a lot more than the actual game, but I've been told it's sequel fixes some of my issues with the first game.

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