I wish my dad would reach out and talk with someone about issues. My sister died last year and he decided he didn't want to talk to his good friend about it because his friend still has two daughters and won't know what it is like.

He doesn't have anyone to talk to except for me and my mom, he won't do therapy to get through his guilt of surviving cancer while she didn't survive it which if he went to therapy he would realize is ridiculous to have because they were different cancers.

My mom at least is going through therapy which is helping her get through the loss.

I agree people should support men more, but like this post being here, reddit, and tumblr is stupid. Here, reddit, and tumblr are the exact places creating hostile unfavorable environments where it's ok to hate men. Almost all of the man-bashing and non-caring for my well-being I've ever experienced comes from sites like these, and the kind of people who use sites like these when it's IRL stuff. It's a problem of "the patriarchy" It's a problem from YOU, yes exactly YOU reading and upvoting this post right now. If you are concerned about the well-being of men, stop actively being a problem towards the well-being of men.

People always seem shocked when I'm offended by terms like "I hate men".

Like it's somehow wrong of me to be offended by blatant misandry because I should just "know what they mean". I'm one of "the good ones, they don't mean me when they say it". Horseshit.

Love this. 🫂