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my gf is hardly ever online and prefers games (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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she’s just not a very active person online. when she is, shes only active in group chats with her friends.

usually, she talks about video games, and is actually offline because she plays video games almost all the time.

is there any way to salvage the relationship? she’s too focused on her interests to be interested in mine, and like I said, is almost always playing games so we barely talk aside from: “hi ❤️” “Hi sweetie ❤️” “hru??” “Good, just playing games, you?” “good :)) im listening to music” and then the conversation ends because she doesn’t message first and is busy with the other stuff.

(i have tried talking to her and she says she’s usually busy. shes either genuinely busy, busy with games, or in a bad mood and doesn’t feel like talking [sad/tired])

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[–] Sas@beehaw.org 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Uhm are you two monogamous? Also just making sure, you're long distance i take it? Honestly that relationship does not sound healthy at all unless you're poly.

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

we are poly, kinda. the agreement is that we have to know the person and/or know about them before we can date them or it’s considered cheating.

for example, she has a gf. i know of the gf: i know she has one and i’ve talked to her before, so this is alright. she has spoken to my ex a little when i dated him (before i figured out i wasn’t into guys) and knows he dated me.