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[–] Noobnarski@lemmy.world 22 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (9 children)

Bruh, as a guy who hasn't had sex yet, if you feel like you really need to have sex, what is so wrong about just paying a prostitute to do it with?

I've thought about it before, it's also legal here so yeah. But I've realised that I'm not mainly looking for sex, I'm mainly looking for emotional connection.

[–] Stamets@lemmy.world 20 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Literally nothing wrong with it as far as I'm concerned. I mean... I lost my virginity at a bathhouse to 30+ men so I'm not exactly the foremost expert on how to best lose your virginity but I mean... Practice makes perfect right? Anxiety is a real thing. I get it.

[–] kayzeekayzee@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

h-huh? If you feel comfortable, please elaborate because I am so curious how something like that even happens. (It's totally okay if you want to keep that private though)

[–] Stamets@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Well, I got an invite to go to a bathhouse for an event. I went. There was a dark room with a sling. I got in it. Many men then proceeded to get inside of me. Much fun was had.

[–] kayzeekayzee@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 minutes ago

lol neat! My asexual ass could never, but I'm glad you had fun

[–] toy_boat_toy_boat@lemmy.world 9 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

the world will never hear the farts you could have made.

[–] Stamets@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Oh I can still rip ass, trust me. Kegels do a lot.

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