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[–] TheDemonBuer@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (38 children)

As long as a majority of Americans live in suburban areas, car dependency will continue.

[–] Showroom7561@lemmy.ca 20 points 1 day ago (27 children)

If suburbs were developed to be people-centric, you really wouldn't need a car for 99% of your daily tasks. Most trips by car are very short, and can very easily be replaced by non-car modes of transportation.

The argument I usually hear from car-brains is that we have to pRoTeCt RuRaL cAr DrIvErs.

[–] auraithx@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Unless you’re transporting anything of a decent size which most people do frequently.

[–] Showroom7561@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Define “decent size” and define “frequently”.

It's incredibly rare to see pickup trucks in the suburbs or city hauling stuff. Sure, there's that one guy who collects metal scraps once a week, but that's about it. He's using his truck to make a living, not to take his kid to school up the road.

[–] auraithx@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Heavier or more awkward than you can comfortably carry. Weekly/monthly food shop, furniture, weekend getaways, etc.

[–] Showroom7561@lemmy.ca 8 points 23 hours ago (3 children)

Weekly/monthly food shop, furniture, weekend getaways, etc.

Food shopping doesn't require a large truck, or even a car.

I've carried 120lbs worth of groceries on an old bike + a lightweight trailer. It's easy to haul stuff on a regular bike, and if hauling large loads is something that you'd often do, a cargo bike makes a lot more sense than a car.

These days, since I don't support Walmart anymore, I can walk to my local grocery store a few times a week with a handcart, and get all the groceries I could need (even pulling 60lbs+ with a handcart is easy). I can also get exercise and connect with other humans at the same time! It's a better way of doing it.

Furniture? How often? Most people get stuff like that delivered for free, or might rent a small van for the odd time they want to pick up themselves.

Weekend getaway is understandable. I don't know anyone who goes on them every weekend. Maybe on a holiday weekend, but even then, owning a car for the odd getaway seems... wasteful.

The majority of people would still benefit from people-centric infrastructure, and an even greater number of people don't need anything bigger than a small car (if that).

And I say that acknowledging that North American cities aren't even designed with people in mind, so imagine how useless cars would be if they weren't the priority?

[–] auraithx@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (3 children)

Are you single? Food shop with a family is not feasible with the weather and roads here. Vegan too so a lot bulkier. Tins, bottles of juice, fruit and veg, dog food, etc. it barely fits in the car.

Move furniture about all the time, last week I took my garden furniture to my SILs for a party she is having.

Away doing something most weekends yes, kids demand it. Can’t exactly put the pram on a bike either so even with great public transport the weather makes doing anything without shelter unpractical.

Your experience basically flies in the face of how millions around the world live all the time without cars or needing them that much.

Maybe your particular situation, who knows, but yeah.

[–] Showroom7561@lemmy.ca 5 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

Are you single?

No. And before kids moved out I was shopping for four adults + extra for when the grandkids stayed over.

Food shop with a family is not feasible with the weather and roads here.

Even though the option to have groceries delivered is available, I get groceries by bike or on foot all year round. In Canada. We get snow and sub-zero temperatures.

Vegan too so a lot bulkier. Tins, bottles of juice, fruit and veg, dog food, etc. it barely fits in the car.

Yes, also vegan. 25 years, now 🤩 I get it, we buy large bags of flour, rice, dry beans, and other bulky ingredients on a regular basis.

At peak-pet, we had five adult cats and two large dogs. At that time, I'll admit that ordering pet food online with free delivery was just what we did.

Grocery shopping does require planning if you're going infrequently.

Being in the suburbs or city, most people would have access to at least a few grocery stores within a 20 minute bike ride.

Move furniture about all the time, last week I took my garden furniture to my SILs for a party she is having.

If all the time, then you are able to justify having a larger vehicle. Most people, including most SUV owners, are not moving furniture all the time.

Away doing something most weekends yes, kids demand it. Can’t exactly put the pram on a bike either so even with great public transport the weather makes doing anything without shelter unpractical.

When we had the grandkids over, I was using a child trailer (for two) and using panniers for the groceries.

Since all grocery stores since Covid offer curbside pickup, it was much easier than you'd think.

And I don't have a cargo bike, which would make things even easier.

My point is that a people-centric city plan would remove barriers for mostly everyone. Even within a car-centric framework, it's totally possible to avoid using a car for most trips.

I wouldn't have believed it until I tried.

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 1 points 11 hours ago

25 years, now

Amazing! My 8th veganniversary is in a couple weeks.

That other guy has pets but I'll let it pass.

[–] doingthestuff@lemy.lol 1 points 19 hours ago

Ah. See, you're able to ride a bike and not die. My community is not there yet.

[–] Zexks@lemmy.world -3 points 22 hours ago

This is privilege. Funny how so many in here would immediately bitch about others not recognizing it but in here it's totally acceptable to be completely obliviously.

[–] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Unless you’re moving furniture or have a physical disability it’s not really an issue. It’s also easy to use Uber/Lyft/etc and book a large vehicle on the occasions you do actually need it.

I guess if you’re buying a ton of pet food/litter or drinks regularly it could be a pain, but if an area is actually designed well you won’t be carrying it very long. And if you plan ahead and have one of those little luggage/shopping carts you don’t have to carry it at all.

Source: have lived for the past 15+ years without a car.

[–] auraithx@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

The juice and alcohol would barely fit in the carts

Move furniture frequently, do have a physical disability, pets, kids. Not feasible without a car. Using taxis all the time would be a fortune and kinda defeats the purpose, no?

[–] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

A cargo bike would probably be better for you, then, or just a cargo attachment to a bike. E-bikes are strong enough for hauling and getting around that I see a parent and 1-2 kids being hauled around by them all the time, and I doubt your groceries outweigh that.

If you haul furniture for work or are constantly doing free deliveries for friends or something then yeah, you’re going to need transport that accommodates that. But that’s an edge case and doesn’t really negate the societal need for communities to be built around human beings and not cars. If you lived where I do you would be eligible for door to door service from the disabled transit to take you to and from the grocery store. There’s not a reason for you or anyone else to need to spend (tens of) thousands of dollars on a car, insurance, gas, and maintenance to access food or your job when we could just be doing mass transit and improving pedestrian/cyclist access.

[–] auraithx@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

I wasn't arguing against building communities to be built around human beings, I'm saying they aren't so it's infeasible.

I've never seen anyone with kids on bikes here because it'd be miserable. Narrow roads, parked traffic, and no safe routes from A->B for most things. No bike routes, can't go on the motorway, backroads are a death sentence. Looking at a cargo bike - never seen one IRL - that would fit a small weekly shop. Then you have the kids and all their stuff. God forbid we want to take the dog also.

There's no need to spend on a car. There's a shop for essentials within walking distance like there is anywhere I've lived in the UK, you could just not visit people who live further than walking distance from you, rely on other people to drop off things for you. Spend a lot more time commuting doing smaller trips to avoid being overloaded, spend more in the expensive local shops. Order a delivery from ASDA instead of driving around the zero waste shops, local co-ops, etc. Just a lot less practical and more restrictive. Not really edge cases, people use their cars to transport stuff regularly. New homes take time to build up, new family members, refurbishments, events, etc. If you don't drive then someone else is doing it for you or you're just doing less.

[–] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 4 hours ago

It would be miserable to bike with kids where you are right now because of who your local government decided public space belongs to and how they should get to use it (ie, people in cars and they should use it by driving around). It doesn’t have to be that way and it’s absolutely possible to live perfectly happily without a car when communities choose to prioritize public space being for things other than cars.

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