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What are red flags on a dating profile? (lazysoci.al)

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Online dating is normality now. What are some red flags you should avoid?

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[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 27 points 4 days ago (1 children)

For me? Having a dating profile. 🤣

More seriously:

Anything manosphere-reeking. Instant "no go zone".
Emphasis on looks over personality (both in himself and in his descriptions of who he's looking for).
Inability to articulate.
No sign of any kind of intellectual life: everything's physical.
Any mention of a recent ex. Sorry, but that's a minefield I'm not crossing ever again.

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 4 days ago

Yup to all that!

I'd add to that that if you do send a message that's well thought out and light hearted, and they send back something lazy and/or thoughtless, then don't bother replying.