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Chronic Illness

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A community/support group for chronically ill people. While anyone is welcome, our number one priority is keeping this a safe space for chronically ill people.

This is a support group, not a place for people to spout their opinions on disability.

Rules

  1. Be excellent to each other

  2. Absolutely no ableism. This includes harmful stereotypes: lazy/freeloaders etc

  3. No quackery. Does an up-to date major review in a big journal or a major government guideline come to the conclusion you’re claiming is fact? No? Then don’t claim it’s fact. This applies to potential treatments and disease mechanisms.

  4. No denialism or minimisation This applies challenges faced by chronically ill people.

  5. No psychosomatising psychosomatisation is a tool used by insurance companies and governments to blame physical illnesses on mental problems, and thereby saving money by not paying benefits. There is no concrete proof psychosomatic or functional disease exists with the vast majority of historical diagnoses turning out to be biomedical illnesses medicine has not discovered yet. Psychosomatics is rooted in misogyny, and consisted up until very recently of blaming women’s health complaints on “hysteria”.

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I'm really struggling this week between health, financial, and personal difficulties along with anxiety over the general state of the world.

Please share what helps you get through tough days.

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[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I've learned to think of three things for which I'm grateful every day. Big or small. I don't close the reminder until I complete the task. Today, if I can remember all three:

  1. Our kitty who was timid about my partner since living together is now comfortable being pet by her.
  2. I can walk to work (and do). Super short commute.
  3. Can't remember the third, so this is off the dome: whatever maintenance stuff that the building was doing didn't need to happen when they looked at our filter and they only stayed for five seconds.
[–] thicksliceham@mander.xyz 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

A reminder to be grateful is a fantastic idea. Simple, and can be done anywhere and any time.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 2 days ago

It's been surprisingly effective at improving my outlook in general. An ex taught me that. Thanks, ex!