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[โ€“] AndiHutch@lemmy.zip 1 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I don't think of it as an insult generally, but it reads like an insult in this context to me since you certainly weren't using it a clinical sense and it doesn't land as a joke imo; now you can say that's all on me if you want but communication has 2+ parties involved. Even if it wasn't meant as an insult, it is still ableist language in this context imo and I will call it out even if it makes people uncomfortable.

[โ€“] SanctimoniousApe@lemmings.world 2 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

Well, I'll admit I'm older and perhaps less sensitive to that notion than I should be - particularly as I never heard that term until the past decade or so. There are times when I can definitely see the issue, and then there's times like this that I just don't - or just think the sensitivity towards the topic is being taken too far beyond reasonable expectations. Guess we'll have to agree to disagree on the point.