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Good point. Im still wondering though if people like her are really responding to fear or if this is more about reinforceing ideas, agendas and drama.
Feeling somewhat uneasy seeing people in your neighborhood whos demographic you don't like to see around, as unnecessary and harmful this is for the community, is something entirely different than realising you could possibly be harmed in the situation you are in right now.
Im just assuming here that she wont get a fight or flight response every time she sees a black guy or something, though. If she does this is an entirely different problem and may be better adressed by a professional.
I don't know about other people, but I'm pretty sure that with my mom it is genuine fear. She really does need therapy, but it would take decades to work through all her issues and she's old and set in her ways. She'd never even agree to see a therapist because she's confident she doesn't need one.
This is really unfortunate, then. I wish her inner peace and that you may have the strength to have as much patience with her as you can.