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Admittedly no.

Feels gross saying that, but for me being demi, the physical intimacy with sex is something that honestly takes a lot of time to build up for me alongside that romantic attraction, and I feel it's best if I find someone on the same page on that front.

I'm not saying it's impossible for someone who's worked in the sex industry to be able to do that, but I'd best match with someone else who also personally sees that as something solely reserved for those they feel a heavy romantic attraction for seeing how we'd be on the same page from the get-go.