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It was difficult to accept but after talking with a therapist, and years of being discouraged every time I talked to her, I made the same realization and stopped telling her about most of my life. Everyone is much happier if we don't talk about this. Otherwise she will tell me I took all the wrong decisions and that I should have stayed miserable because that's how it works.
She (and all of her family) is afraid of pretty much everything. So as soon as you can secure a job, you keep it; for life! Even if it destroys your body or your mental, you have a job so keep it! Don't go to school, it's just a waste of money. Don't look elsewhere because it's not going to be better anyway. It's even causing conflict in her family because one of her sister is a nurse and is "too educated". They consider her snobbish.
It's my mother, I love her, but I can't tell her anything or it's going to be worse for both of us.