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[–] 5too@lemmy.world 6 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Hard disagree. Kids are different, have different needs, and behave differently. Parents also have a wide variety of support structures around them, which also has a huge impact on how difficult raising kids is.

There are people who will struggle to be good parent regardless of other factors, but that is not the only reason raising kids might be hard. I'm glad you haven't had some of the struggles other people have, but you sound like the guy born on third who thought he got a home run.

[–] drmoose@lemmy.world 1 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Don't understand your baseball metaphor, not an american.

[–] 5too@lemmy.world 2 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

...yeah, I actually should have left that part off. It was unnecessarily fussy of me, and I apologize for putting that in. I stand by the rest of what I said, but that part was an unnecessary personal attack.

In baseball, you can only score by getting past the opposing team without being tagged with the ball; which usually requires your teammates to keep them busy as you move from one safe base to the next. To start from third (last before scoring) and think you hit a home run is to start out almost done and think you did the whole thing without support.

Again, I apologize for putting that in - we have not had easy kids, and the "skill issue" comment hit a nerve.