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Challenging and confusing, I imagine. Traditionally "romantic" gestures give me the ick and I end up pushing away anyone who displays that kind of interest. I want to be comfortable and cozy together, not put on a pedestal and certainly not worshipped. The idea of being the center of someone's world is terrifying, we need to be a good part of each others. I'm also pretty self-reliant and most people seem to need to feel needed, so...
tl;dr cat person