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[–] LavaPlanet@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 days ago

A long time ago in my youth, I had this issue where, I didn't realise till I turned around and looked behind me, that I hadn't been single, ever. I was jumping from relationship to relationship, and right then I swore I would build a me that was comfortable alone, happy with my own company, treat myself as if I am the person I'm dating, take myself places, just because, you know. Find me. We spend the most time on this earth with ourselves as company, that's always gotta be the best relationship of all. Any time I need a break from anything, dating, the world, I pick that adventure back up, like an heirloom knitting creation, and I keep building on it. So that's where I am, right now. Feel free to join me, the water is devine.