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Okay, so, you're not an older driver (like over 50), which is what these are intended for, but I also know some places are fine with fitting in younger drivers. Look for a program called CarFit. Like I said, it's mostly aimed at seniors, but I've taken it.
They verified all the safety features of the car were all working, and then adjusted them to fit me: they moved the seatbelt shoulder down (I didn't even know it moved!), adjusted the steering wheel angle so the airbag wouldn't punch me in the throat if it went off, verified the headrest was in the right position to minimize whiplash, ensured I had maximum visibility in my side mirrors and explained how to adjust them properly, etc. It was very useful!
I'd also suggest that some of your issues may be solvable with simple aids. A short woman I know has a cushion she sits on to improve her visibility over the wheel; I myself added small extra mirrors to my side mirrors, to improve visibility.
Finally, I did a quick Google for "tips for very short drivers subreddit" and there were a number of posts over the years, with various suggestions. None of them will help with your actual fear, but some of them may help put you in a position to cope with your fear. Good luck!
I can't find a CarFit program but I guess there have to be similar ones where I live (Spain). I added extra mirrors too, and they were helpful indeed! The cushion part is heavily discouraged, and I haven't been able to find legally approved cushions for drivers :(
Before you give up on raising the seat height, if you haven't already, check out the user manual or look up your model vehicle online and just make sure that you've used everything that's already installed to adjust/raise the seat as far as it can go.
I wouldn't even say this except I was regularly driving someone else's car for a period of time, and I was genuinely uncomfortable with the height until I happened to mention it to them. Turns out their driver seat height was fully adjustable the whole time, motorized even. I'd just been looking in the wrong place.
You're probably much smarter than me and have already verified this, but if you haven't it's worth a look, and both raising it and lowering it as far as it will go so you know its limits. Good luck to you!
EDITED TO ADD: I don't know how handy you are with tools, but if you're not comfortable with adding a cushion on top that might slide around, you can buy car seat risers and car seat lift kits for your model vehicle. They install under the seat, between the seat and the floor, and are quite sturdy and safe. I've added US links so you can see what I'm talking about, but you'd get yours in the EU, online or at a parts store. There will be instructions and probably even videos to help you install it. If you're not handy with tools you could have a friend or mechanic install it for you as car seats are pretty easy to unbolt and take out, and of course if you do it yourself then you've actually felt the wrench in your hand and you know the bolts are good and tight, one less thing to worry about. Just remembered those. Good luck!
I had no idea that such things existed! Thank you!!
Very well might not be possible to get a different car, but some car models are known to be more suitable for shorter drivers (eg. the Fiat 500)