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[–] SolarBoy@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I actually used some incense yesterday to try. But I'm not sure how long this one goes, so I will have to time it.

It's a bit more tricky to use it in the bedroom though, the smell is nice, but I can feel it in my eyes if there is not enough ventilation. I also find it quite difficult to notice that the smell is gone. But maybe that's something you learn.

Noticing that your body goes numb is quite a good way to notice too. But I feel like this is also something that changes over time. Nowadays I could sit for 1 hour without any discomfort or slumping, so it becomes a less reliable tell.

Something else that I've seen are these water clocks (if that's how you call them) Basically a pot of water that slowly drips into a bowl. It will make a dripping sound until the water is empty. So you can choose how long to meditate by filling the pot with the appropriate amount.

Now to figure out how to make something like that myself.

[–] SpicyWizard@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You also have the classical sand clock, much easier to find and can also be a good looking decoration.

[–] SolarBoy@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Do you mean like an hourglass? That would be difficult to notice if you are closing your eyes though. Or can you actually hear when the sand stops moving?

[–] SpicyWizard@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 month ago

Yes! An hourglass.

And yes it will be difficult to notice closing your eyes, as far as I remember it makes a subtle noise but I guess it depends on the model. And if you get lost on thoughts you can easily miss it.

Not a perfect solution but well, it could be an opportunity to use that noise as a point focus, or just explore meditation with the eyes open.

[–] ComradeMiao@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You’re not supposed to fully close your eyes, only mostly. At least in Chan/Zen

[–] SolarBoy@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 month ago

The type i'm most used to is vipassana, which has the eyes closed. I've done with eyes slightly open before, but found it more difficult to pay attention to my breathing or sensations on the body that way

[–] ComradeMiao@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

What incense are you using? Chinese and Tibetan should not be used in a closed room. Open a window or a door if that’s the case!

[–] SolarBoy@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 month ago

Not sure what specific type of incense it is, but got it from an indian friend.

[–] SolarBoy@slrpnk.net 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah, it's agarbatti. It mentions not to use in badly ventilated areas. My bad.

What types of incense would be better suited for indoors?

[–] ComradeMiao@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

I personally think Japanese incense typically can have a weaker scent that is fine for me indoors. Indian is super strong typically!