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[–] Waldowal@lemmy.world 117 points 2 years ago (6 children)

You don't have to run the rat race to get promoted. You don't have to be at your desk at 7am and leave at 7pm to put on a show. Just be competent. Most people are not. You'll eventually get promoted once you are old and white enough.

[–] ours@lemmy.film 65 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Getting promoted isn't a race. It's a marketing campaign. The squeaky wheel gets the grease sadly. I hate it but that's the game. You can be great but if the right people don't hear about it it won't bring a reward.

The funny thing is it's a loss for the employer since it means people spend time self-promoting themselves and their achievements instead of just doing things well.

[–] robotrash@lemmy.robotra.sh 24 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Some leadership will actively not promote you, even block attempts by you, if you're at the top of your role and consistently outperforming peers, why would they let you move up? You make them look good right here.

[–] SnowBunting@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago

Had a sup that did that to me. It sucked. Glad I'm not working for her anymore.

[–] Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz 12 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Getting promotions and raises is rare. Haven’t seen that happen very many times. However, many people have told me that the best way to get a raise is to switch to another company.

[–] beckie_lane@lemm.ee 10 points 2 years ago

I worked at β€œAT&T wireless” back in the day when dirt was new. This guy would say β€œ squeaky wheel gets the grease.” One day after he said that our team lead said β€œοΏΌOr gets replaced.” Then they walked his ass out.

[–] McScience@discuss.online 9 points 2 years ago

Yeah. I always tell newbies "nobody ever got a promotion for work their boss didn't know they did." Sadly if you produce 100 units of value and the boss only knows about 10 of them the guy who did 20 units but won't shut up about it looks 2x as valuable even though he's actually doing 1/5 the work. Trick is to be doing the most work and have people see it

[–] oce@jlai.lu 1 points 2 years ago

If we take it from the other side, it's difficult for management to understand how well you're doing if you're not communicating it properly, especially if your job is highly technical but they aren't. Technical experts who would understand your work alone don't necessarily make good managers.

[–] kilgore_trout@feddit.it 16 points 2 years ago

Most probably you will never be promoted anyway.

[–] ipkpjersi@lemmy.ml 16 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I must not be old enough because I've never been promoted even though I'm practically white as a ghost. Every promotion I have ever received is from getting a new job at a new company and ending up making significantly more money that way.

[–] cyborganism@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Just be friends with the manager. That's who I found was promoted the most in my career.

[–] TheDarkKnight@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

tbh its pretty common in IT to find your squad (and your squad leader) and follow β€˜em everywhere.

[–] cyborganism@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Except it's often a boys club with its toxic behaviors, which not all people will fit in.

[–] TheDarkKnight@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago

Not been my experience but no doubt it exists in the field

[–] Pansen@feddit.de 10 points 2 years ago

Fully agree. You can be lazy AF, as long as you get a few key assignments done or overfulfill them. Everybody will be like 'ooh, he so good' and forget that you don't do shit for 95% of the time.

[–] PeachMan@lemmy.one 5 points 2 years ago

It should be noted that this is advice specific to white men in Western countries πŸ˜† but yes, it's true.