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One time I was in a hospital, visiting a friend after an amputation, & there was a post-op nurse whose mind/meaning/presence was drenched in both yoga & meditation: it had transformed her.
That made her mind feel deeper & slightly-hypnotic for me.
Different from any mind I'd ever felt before.
That deep current in her was wonderful.
Caveat: I don't date, & wouldn't inflict me on anybody, ever.
Not a fair relationship ( I'm an autistic blockhead, addicted to meditations, insights & understandings, not people ).
But if you ever come across such a someone, if that is what your senses are giving you, then you aren't alone:
others have perceived that same inner-wealth in someone, too.
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Also, that was such a beautiful way to describe someone. It’s rare to meet people who have that kind of 'stillness' about them, especially in a place as chaotic as a hospital. Thank you for sharing that, it’s a great reminder that a 'green flag' can just be someone’s pure energy.
Wow, what a vivid description. As an artist, I totally get what you mean about being drawn to a certain 'presence' or depth in someone. And hey, don't be so hard on yourself! Being into insights and meditation isn't a bad thing, it just means you have a world of your own. Thanks for the thoughtful addition to the post!