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[–] rekabis@lemmy.ca 1 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)

Chiming in as a woman who gets no attention.

Are you 200+kg? Does your face look like it’s been cut apart and incorrectly reassembled? Are you grotesquely crippled to the point of needing a full-time care aid?

If not: X Doubt.

For almost all men, the only time in their life that they ever receive flowers is on the day of their funeral.

When men are complimented by a woman, they hold that treasured memory for years, because it might be the only time in their life where a woman other than a direct relative compliments them.

When men date, the average man typically suffers a direct rejection rate of 98% to 100%. Vanishingly few men see a rejection rate of less than 90%. Comparatively speaking, the average woman sees a rejection rate of about 30-35%.

Compared to the average man, you are likely marinating in attention.

Against other women, probably not. And for that alone you have my sympathies. But vs the average man? Absolutely.

[–] Okokimup@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

Hi, did you notice that you not only completely denied my experience and assumed you knew my life better than me, but you did so on in a community that specifically only allows women and non-binary participation?