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That brought back some old memories. Most forums had that kind of implicit rule. You were meant to see how people were posting and learn how to fit in.
I'm glad there are more internet communities open to people expressing themselves however they want, emphasizing mutual respect rather than fitting in.
I do miss it a little because they definitely had a culture that was unique, compared to sites like Twitter or Reddit.
I definitely have nostalgia for it too! But as with all memories it can be hard to separate what's me missing being younger and what's me missing how things were back then.
I think with federation gets more popular a lot of it may come back in a way.
There's nothing really stopping people from creating an non-federalized instance that would essentially be an old school forum. There was a pretty crazy lemmy frontend thing I saw that brings it all full circle too.
Lemmy as a phpBB forum: https://fedibb.ml/