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Would you want to stay for at least X hours? 2X? 4X? Something else?

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[โ€“] Mothra@mander.xyz 30 points 2 years ago (1 children)

No. It depends on what I went to do.

[โ€“] porksoda@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Exactly. I once drove 12 hours to save $6k on shipping. I was there for 45 minutes while four pallets were loaded.

[โ€“] sparky@lemmy.federate.cc 15 points 2 years ago (1 children)

For travel I usually use as a rule of thumb, that you need to stay the same number of days as there were hours in the flight to get there. So for example a quick two hour hop lends itself nicely to a weekend getaway, whereas a transcontinental flight implies staying a week or two. This tends to be advantageous anyway, for jet lag purposes.

[โ€“] favrion@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago
[โ€“] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 2 years ago

If I hike up a hill for an hour, it was about the journey and I only need to stay at the top for 5 - 10 minutes.

[โ€“] Devi@kbin.social 10 points 2 years ago

It really depends, my friend was having a hard time once so in the evening I drove 3 hours to go see them, had a beer with them, then came home. I think it was absolutely worth it. I've also driven that far to buy something that took 15 minutes.

But say, a museum, I'd definitely want to make a day of it if I was driving that far. Maybe more.

[โ€“] Tolookah@discuss.tchncs.de 10 points 2 years ago

Depends where.
DMV? 0h.
Family? 2x minimum.
Friends? Whatever I can get.

[โ€“] joucker29@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 years ago

7X. If I have to travel a day to go on vacation I will be staying for at least a week.

[โ€“] Sibbo@sopuli.xyz 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

If Neil Armstrong was resting this, he would laugh. So many months of preparation, just to walk a very short while on the moon

[โ€“] Ravi@feddit.de 1 points 2 years ago

It's not about the travel

[โ€“] nfsu2@feddit.cl 8 points 2 years ago

For a one night stand 1/4x. I guess it really depends on the action if you now what I mean.

[โ€“] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 years ago

It depends really, but my go to in general is about as much time as I'm going to spend driving.

Sometimes though I don't need to stay that long if the company is great or the place is great.

An example of a fun time with a 3 hour drive (1 way) and less than 6 at the destination: I went hiking with a good friend of mine and the hike only took 4.5 hours. The views were worth it and the company made it that much better.

An example of a crap time with a 2 hour drive (1 way) and less than 4 at the destination: hiking (again) except the person I was to be hiking with spent the night before getting drunk and rather than tell me they were too hung over to hike, came along anyways. He started vomiting 30 minutes into the trail, so we have to turn around and go home.

[โ€“] solidgrue@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago (2 children)

X/2+7 is like the 80-20 rule: it fits 80% of the time.

Given a travel time of X, half that time plus 7 more hours seems reasonable, until it isn't. 1 hour? Full day. 2 hours? Also a full day. 8 hours? Now were talking 2 days with an overnight expense and 80% per diem.

Math. It works.

[โ€“] radix@lemm.ee 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Do you mind explaining a little more? How do you get two days from 8 hours (8/2 + 7 = only 11 hours not 48)?

Edit: Oh, because nobody's spending 8 hours traveling and then 11 hours at the place and then going back home without staying overnight.

[โ€“] favrion@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Isn't that also the equation for finding your youngest possible date? I'm 27 and according to that my lower limit is 20.5.

[โ€“] solidgrue@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

It's like the 80-20 rule, I say!

[โ€“] jrbaconcheese@yall.theatl.social 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

2/3 of X^2 seems pretty close

[โ€“] __forward__@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

Obviously it depends (for work when I can work on the train I am okay with longer journeys) but there has to be some sort of non-linearity involved, I agree!

[โ€“] Leviathan@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

I've done .25x so I guess it depends how good the destination is and who I'm going with.

[โ€“] Extrasvhx9he@lemmy.today 6 points 2 years ago

Depends on other factors like who I'm meeting, time of day, etc. Purely on the time to get there though I think 2x minimum to make it feel worth it imo

[โ€“] FredericChopin_@feddit.uk 6 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I wouldnโ€™t put a time on it.

I would drive for a dozen hours for things that last a few minutes.

JS Bach walked hundreds of miles to hear someone play the organ.

[โ€“] Zikeji@programming.dev 1 points 2 years ago

I love my audio books, so driving isn't a huge complaint. I once drove 12 hours to hang out with family for Thanksgiving (~4 hours) and then drove back (another 12 hours).

[โ€“] Firemyth@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

Bach didn't have planes trains and automobiles...

[โ€“] luxyr42@lemmy.dormedas.com 5 points 2 years ago

I don't mind driving, especially through the mountains. So I don't really think twice driving for 3 hours each way to spend an hour apple picking, for instance.

[โ€“] zephyr@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

I'd say x1.5 the amount of that time.

But sometimes the journey is more important than destination.

[โ€“] MNByChoice@midwest.social 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

X hours. I prefer 2X hours, but X is my minimum.

[โ€“] Sharpiemarker@feddit.de 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

So you're saying a 1:1 travel to staying ratio?

[โ€“] radix@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I think it's a 2:1 ratio because it's X hours traveling there, X hours spent at the location, and then X hours coming back home, totaling 2X hours in transit.

[โ€“] MNByChoice@midwest.social 4 points 2 years ago

At least a much time there as time to get there. Not the round trip time.

Preferably, at least as much time there as round trip time. However, I have violated this, so it is clearly not my limit.

Technically, I have stayed for shorter times. Those were not "for fun" trips and had important goals attached.

I am also discounting all one-way trips of less than an hour.

[โ€“] cosmicrookie@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Depends on what I'm there for. I've done 0.8X for a pretty long trip and would have gone faster if it wasn't for bureaucracy.

PS i dont enjoy traveling

[โ€“] essellburns@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago

Everywhere is an hour away from where I live, so X hours is my standard for high quality experiences, to reference your formula.

[โ€“] tallwookie@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

X + 4 at minimum but it's very situationally dependent.

[โ€“] TheHalc@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 years ago

X+4 what? Hours?

[โ€“] SuperSpruce@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Generally around 3-4X for me, except if I'm riding a motorcycle or driving a sports car, where the travelling is the main event.

[โ€“] Still@programming.dev 1 points 2 years ago

I've been to stores 4 hours from where I live and been there for like half an hour before. has to be like a full day of driving (10 hours) for me to feel like i have to stay over night