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[–] iqwertyasdf@lemmy.world 159 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I also love being there for my girlfriend to tie her shoe laces!

[–] bennypr0fane@discuss.tchncs.de 17 points 2 years ago

As long as the shoes don't smell...

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[–] balderdash9@lemmy.zip 114 points 2 years ago (19 children)

I don't want to sound like an incel, and I like eating vag/salad as much as the next guy, but imagine this image with the genders reversed

[–] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 51 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yes i imagined it, very nice. Whats the next step?

[–] balderdash9@lemmy.zip 62 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] Fosheze@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago

I love you and I'm saving this.

[–] Franklin@lemm.ee 51 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

IMO either party doing this is fine as long as it's discussed and within the comfort bounds of the people in the relationship.

I think the problem is an expectation when there has been no discussion about whether or not it's within someone's limits.

[–] balderdash9@lemmy.zip 57 points 2 years ago (14 children)

I have no issue with oral sex between consenting adults. But this meme would not be as well received if the genders were reversed. It's hard to even imagine someone posting "always be there for your man in a time of crisis" with the woman going down on the guy.

[–] Franklin@lemm.ee 19 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I can only speak for myself but I wouldn't really mind it the other way around as long as there's no implied use of force or manipulation.

[–] Absolutemehperson@lemmy.world 22 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Feel free to reverse the genders & post this on twitter then. Getting banned from the internet speedrun any%

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[–] papertowels@lemmy.one 13 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I believe "consenting" is key here.

The reason why it's taboo if the genders were reversed is because there is a long and well documented history of non-consent when genders are reversed.

Was there non-consent where gals are forcing guys? Very likely. However what evidence I've seen suggests this is dwarfed by guys forcing gals.

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[–] Knusper@feddit.de 34 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I agree that it would look quite different with the genders reversed. However, gender equality is not like mathematical equality, where every situation needs to be reversible.

Women have traditionally been less sex-positive and less dominant, which many consider indicators of a lack of true gender equality, so a progressive community will celebrate a reversal of that.

[–] AstridWipenaugh@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago

Bad behavior is still bad behavior, regardless of who's doing it. The oppressed engaging in the same behavior as their former oppressors is not equality, it's just more oppression.

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[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 27 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Nothing wrong with a consenting partner

[–] balderdash9@lemmy.zip 20 points 2 years ago

Yes, but not quite the point I was making

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[–] demlet@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago (7 children)

Everyone here will pretend they would be fine with it now that you called out the hypocrisy. Or they'll argue men deserve it as some kind of "payback", in which case it's really not about equality of course.

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[–] Draedron@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 2 years ago

What would be the issue then? 2 consenting people can show each other what they want sexually, no matter the gender

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[–] RagnarokOnline@reddthat.com 88 points 2 years ago (5 children)
[–] Wizarded@lemm.ee 25 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)
[–] stebo02@sopuli.xyz 25 points 2 years ago

We never have boners because of horny jail!

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[–] JokeDeity@lemm.ee 46 points 2 years ago (11 children)

Aren't memes supposed to be funny? This just looks like a shitty Tumblr post.

[–] Draedron@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 2 years ago

It is funny. Might not be your humor but others find it funny

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[–] erogenouswarzone@lemmy.ml 45 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (6 children)

While we're on the topic. Everybody needs to read a book about pleasuring their partners.

She comes first

Her guide to going down

I'm sure you can get more focused content for your particular situation if you looked for it, but don't assume you know what You're doing. Read and make the world a better place.

[–] mycatiskai@lemmy.one 17 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus, is also a good one.

She comes first, second, third, fourth and fifth if my neck and her heart can take the strain.

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[–] dangblingus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 43 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Whatever scant humor this comic possessed, has been irretrievably destroyed by the pedants in the comments.

[–] nxdefiant@startrek.website 28 points 2 years ago

cunning linguists they are not.

[–] Thcgrasscity@lemmy.ca 24 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I was really not expecting so much, i sent it to the lady im dating she laughed so i posted it. Like most comments ive ever gotten on a meme were 6.

[–] TheFrirish@jlai.lu 35 points 2 years ago (4 children)

What the hell is wrong with people in this comment section? yeah if the genders were reversed blah blah blah be pragmatic and enjoy that pussy ffs.

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[–] GreenMario@lemm.ee 34 points 2 years ago

Panel 3: titty eye contact, he accepts his fate lol

[–] ssboomman@lemm.ee 24 points 2 years ago

Is there a community for horny nsfw memes that isn’t actually porn? Asking for a friend of course.

[–] FatTony@lemm.ee 21 points 2 years ago (1 children)

More importantly. Does that guy have a beard or is that just part of his hair?

[–] dipshit@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago

It’s part of his hair, and grows on his chin.

[–] SaltyIceteaMaker@lemmy.ml 19 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I would be there for my lady...

If i had one!

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[–] AceQuorthon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 2 years ago
[–] random_character_a@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] pokexpert30@lemmy.pussthecat.org 16 points 2 years ago

What a terrible day to know how to read

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