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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] Lalaland@lemmy.ca 19 points 1 month ago (5 children)

I joined this site to say that her and I are the same height and look to be around the same weight. If anything, I may be a bit smaller. I’m a size 10.

When I saw her recent stories - I thought, “oh she’s lost some weight. Looks more like a 6.” Then this official image comes out. She’s a size 10/12.

Here’s the thing: it’s fine to be a size 10/12. She’s beautiful I think. But I’m literally astounded at the filtering on a body positivity account when so many women who follow her likely have, or have had, disordered eating.

Joined this site to express my rage at the hypocrisy!

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Doesn’t matter if you’re a size 10 or a size 2 🫶🏼 If you have a public platform under the guise of “body positivity” then you shouldn’t be full to the tits with filler, Botox (“migraines”) she says 🙄 and then filter every pic of yourself that you have control over. Shes got fake corn broom hair extensions, fake eyebrows, fake nails etc. We’re all beautiful women, with one shot at this crazy ride we call life! Embrace what God gave us (I do enjoy a few units of Botox myself) but I don’t lie to millions of people. I’m also a recovered anorexic who spent my 30’s obsessing over staying at 105lbs and her content is extremely exhausting and very triggering. The fact that so many sightless sheep give that fraud so much praise is alarming.

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[–] babycarrot@lemmy.world 19 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (10 children)

Just be for real 🤦🏻‍♀️ how does she keep repeating how looks is not everything when in reality it is fucking everything to her. To the point it’s a sickness. She just wants to be a skinny bitch more than anything. Whatever it takes, ozempic, editing the hell out of her pics, you name it she’s doing it for the sake of skinniness. The hypocrisy is driving me nuts. If she just was honest, I’d really have no prob with her specifically. Her faking it every single day for views and likes and followers, I just can not. Messing up with vulnerable women’s heads.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago

Wow this is fucked up. She looks like a size 4/6 here. I hate this woman and I hate that she gets away with deceiving her followers.

How does she have friends that actually go along with this?? It’s insane to me that nobody close to her seems to have a problem with it. It makes me wonder if we’re just insane and seeing things but I truly believe we’re right about everything and her “friends” and family just don’t seem to care because they’re all as awful as she is.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago

You said it! She only cares about what she looks like- her whole identity is connecting with people through her cartoon filtered face and her edited body. The rest of us aren’t over her posing and fake smiling with dead eyes at our besties. If we all sat around acting like influencers we’d get brought back to reality very quickly.

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I knew she couldn’t get through the day without telling us about the pregnancy test - again

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Should it really take someone hours to make dumplings?

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I wonder how much effort Shame puts into his actual mother on Mother’s Day.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago

He and 🍋 should have packed up the car and headed up north for the weekend so he could spend some time with her and she could see her grandchild. They used to visit from time to time but I can’t think of anything recent.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago

I can’t believe this man actually puts in this effort for her lol. She must force him to for the gram.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

What body is she talking about?? The overweight teen body she had that was “forced” to wear boys board shorts because there wasn’t a single bathing suit on this planet that would fit her? Also whose voice and personality has she adopted for this annoying rant.

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago

The same dialogue every. single. day. She feeds insanity

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago (8 children)

Birds most recent Knix shoot sure doesn’t look like the photos she’s been sharing the past few weeks. Different face and body. How does she have no shame?!

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[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago (6 children)

Poor birdshit. A slew of people calling you out because you’re a fuckin phony grifting fraud

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

This comment sums her up. All these body-positive brands and influencers ever wanted was to be the hot girl. They couldn't compete, so they attacked the beauty industry and barreled their way in. Birdie wouldn't be at this party without tens of thousands of dollars worth of procedures done to her face, without her extensions and a professionally made-up face—such a farce.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

For someone who doesn’t care about the comments she always has to post about the comments 🙄

With “real life friends” lol what a dumb thing to say, what is she 12?

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago

It shows they aren't her real friends. Lauren didn't post her. SI didn't post her. Lol

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Lol she's not so tiny eh. What a loooooser! People don't like you Birdshit. Your "career" is over!

[–] ladybonerforjustice@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I feel like she only posted the Getty image to be like see, I’m much smaller than usual and don’t filter! The thing is, she still looks bigger here than the size 2/4 she filters herself into on her own page AND she’s still lying about losing weight. We all know you’re on Ozempic like every other fraudulent “body positive” influencer so own up to it.

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago (2 children)

The vanity is busting out of the seems with her. She acts like being done up and having pictures taken of yourself is the top moment of life and what everyone should strive for. She makes me feel ill

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago

I’d much rather have pictures where I’m genuinely happy in normal every day clothes making memories with my family or just enjoying simple things in life than photos where I’m way overdone on a red carpet and faking it for the cameras. The little moments with family or friends should be more memorable than one picture like this but we all know it isn’t to her. She’d rather have the red carpet photo than a candid with her daughter, unfortunately all the photos with her daughter are manufactured too and not even authentic.

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I don’t understand her obsession with saying she’s collecting stories for when she’s a much older woman. It’s quite presumptuous to think she’s going to reach old age but even more presumptuous to think people want to listen to her talk about herself all the time! Such a narc!

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

And that somehow she is doing this living thing so much better than the rest of us. Wonder if in her older years she’s going to be raising her grandchild holding on to all her memories.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago (3 children)

That bs Starwars rant was wild. The only person on this planet who thinks movies are gender specific.

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

She's a misogynist. She says Star Wars can be for girls, there's romance. 🤪

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[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

The only person who is categorizing movies by gender is the same person who keeps saying people are obsessed with how her body looks. Her and her alone. Literally nobody else

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Desperate times require desperate measures!

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

She is such a loser lmfao. This is not riveting content. The sunglasses. Boobs hanging out so far nips are about to appear. People in the neighborhood seeing this display in the backyard of the house with the pink daisy front door. It’s so embarrassing to even think about. She posts every single moment of her life that are just regular, very normal, usually lackluster daily occurrences that do not need to be shared; nothing to actually offer or help people.

[–] ladybonerforjustice@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago

I think she’s upset about the saggy breast comments on the SI worst dressed, so is trying to prove them wrong lol.

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Can someone explain this pic to me? She’s clearly feeling herself but the back bulge doesn’t jive with the rest of the aesthetic. Did she just forget to alter that area while taking care of the rest?

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago (3 children)

She definitely has a bulge problem. Looks like a nutsack.

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[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Ah, selfies and self-indulgence, just what her most recent surplus of almost 4,000 followers in 4 days asked for

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago (11 children)

Poor bird! The competition is strong out there. This model is just 2 years younger than Bird, gave birth and shows her stretch marks….shes an official SI model. She doesn’t pay to go to parties or have her friends buy her a runway spot. I bet legend in her own mind believes Lauren and Denise get to show their real bodies because she paved the way.

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Authenticity and TBP in the same sentence makes my head feel like it’s going to explode. Scroll her page, watch her stories for a day - showing stretch marks does not = authenticity. She’s a character playing a part to cash in.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I’m convinced she just buys new clothes instead of doing laundry.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago

WTF with her face? Looks like the beginning stages of melanoma patches all over. Same with the pic below.

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago (3 children)

There they are and she’s wearing her shorter face!

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (12 children)
[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 month ago

This is great 😂 These two are a pair of gaslighting manipulative try hards. Neither of them will care, they just love attention!

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Yet again, makes it about herself.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

She has to insert herself into everyone else’s achievement. That comment reads like - Your success is all thanks to me and my viral video.

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[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago

Ew. She's so gross. Everything has to be about her. Let Jo have her moment u loser

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 month ago

What an ass. Regardless of what I think of Knix or Joanna I don’t think Knix made it because of bird 💩. Bird road the coat tails when Knix was having its moment, it could have been any influencer or model.

Went viral together - not even an attempt at a humble brag.

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