Weak... I'm perfectly able to be unhappy without help from Instagram.
Showerthoughts
A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.
Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:
- Both “200” and “160” are 2 minutes in microwave math
- When you’re a kid, you don’t realize you’re also watching your mom and dad grow up.
- More dreams have been destroyed by alarm clocks than anything else
Rules
- All posts must be showerthoughts
- The entire showerthought must be in the title
- No politics
- If your topic is in a grey area, please phrase it to emphasize the fascinating aspects, not the dramatic aspects. You can do this by avoiding overly politicized terms such as "capitalism" and "communism". If you must make comparisons, you can say something is different without saying something is better/worse.
- A good place for politics is c/politicaldiscussion
- Posts must be original/unique
- Adhere to Lemmy's Code of Conduct and the TOS
If you made it this far, showerthoughts is accepting new mods. This community is generally tame so its not a lot of work, but having a few more mods would help reports get addressed a little sooner.
Whats it like to be a mod? Reports just show up as messages in your Lemmy inbox, and if a different mod has already addressed the report, the message goes away and you never worry about it.
We do that here, too. 🤷♂️
I've never felt the appeal of Instagram (or youtube, for that matters). Looks like most of the "normie" internet is just ego showcasing.
Unhappy people that desperately need everyone to believe differently and are superficial enough that it actually makes them feel better when they pretend successfully... There's no need to lose your self-respect just because you're sad though, we can all be better than that! 😅
I went to Instagram once, I saw nothing that didn't amount to a bunch of pretty people fishing for compliments so I left and avoid it.
Meanwhile my ig is full of wholesome art, comics, backpacking adventures, and racecars.
Curate your own feeds instead of letting a megacorp do it for you.
Fat Bastard has entered the chat.
I don't follow influencers, just actual friends and the odd comic. Instagram doesn't make me unhappy.
If you use Android, check out "Distraction-free Instagram". It's an app that lets you disable various parts of the app like your home feed, stories, etc.
I really wanted to stop scrolling on Instagram, but I also really wanted to keep posting my photography, as the interactions I sometimes get on my posts are fun and I enjoy sharing my craft. I also have some friends who ONLY interact via instagram messaging.
I downloaded the app, and disabled everything except messaging, and it's been great. It's definitely made me happier overall.