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[–] zqwzzle@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Oh that’s a trauma thing?

[–] Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com 25 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Not exclusively but often related. Typically from childhood trauma. For the past month and change I've been living alone in a house by myself. There's a downstairs neighbor in the basement. Whenever I hear her car door close or the door open/close? I feel a jolt of anxiety. Small emotional flashbacks to when I was a kid and the only time I was happy and things were peaceful was when I was alone. Hearing the door was a signal things were about to get bad soon and your body just gets used to that. Extremely hard to break.

[–] nixus@anarchist.nexus 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Like when my stomach sometimes gets cramps from hearing a car pull into the driveway.

[–] eestileib@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 days ago

Yeah this sounds like cPTSD.

[–] burntbacon@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 2 days ago

When I'm on my computer and the door to the house opens, I still immediately get up and get away from it, just so I'm not 'caught' at the computer. I've been supporting myself for longer than I ever was living with parents, and I still can't shake the habit.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 days ago

Me when the door isn't visible from where I'm sitting 🥲

[–] LavaPlanet@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 days ago

Sounds like perception anxiety