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For context: I'm a young adult, I don't think I have any serious brain issues yet.

But I've recently been just trying to remember the past and although its kinda tragic, there are very interesting moments and I want to keep these memories forever.

But brains aren't perfect, and I'm just so scared.

Even re-reading the events from a journal woudn't exactly be the same as remembering it.

Idk, I'm kinda just obsessed with some memories for some reason. Don't wanna let go of it. Having this "backstory" (for lack of a better term), is what drives me forward, without those memories, like if I get a concussion and forgot everything, I wouldn't really be... well... "me" anymore, and the thought of that is terrifying.

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[–] ICCrawler@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

No, but I had a coworker once who very much was. She coped by taking lots of pictures/videos and making sure they were stored in a well-organized fashion. Maybe consider doing something similar? If you want to hang onto internal mindstates, write a journal/diary.

[–] Theoriginalthon@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The amount of stuff I have forgotten over the years is huge. The only way to I've found to remember stuff for events is to have a few photos that you look back on. Like the 3/5/whatever years ago that you get on photo apps.

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[–] NoneOfUrBusiness@fedia.io 2 points 1 day ago

You got it right; losing your memories is essentially death. However, all humans die, so it's an all roads lead to Rome kind of thing. You could get a concussion and forget everything, or you could get run over by a car and die. There's no reason to give memory loss special treatment over other terrible things that could also happen to you.

[–] QuoVadisHomines@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

You have to accept that as a meat machine your memory is imperfect and will fail. I have been tested within the top 1% fir long term memory several times over the course of my youth. Im now 50 and while I could recall most of the first 30-35 years of my life Im beginning to get bad at remembering names of coworkers or when I worked at jobs I held within the last 15 years. Memory loss comes for everyone.

[–] zxqwas@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Not really. Every day I refill on new stuff I can remember.

[–] Almacca@aussie.zone 1 points 1 day ago

You get used to it.

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