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Item not person! I know we've got a lot of devoted parents here but you cant say your kids haha.

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My cuddly toys! They make me feel safe and they're fun

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 5 points 1 month ago

I have some bamboo wind chimes. They're ridiculously cheap. But they always bring a smile to my face when there's enough wind to sound them.

My pots. Every pot I own is in some way sentimental. It's complicated.

Or my fav vibrator, yeah.

[–] sparkles@piefed.zip 5 points 1 month ago

Frank, the giant highland cow who sits in the corner and oversees all.

[–] Tinks@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

My giant beanbag chair. It's ridiculous and takes up an excess amount of space in my office, but it's so comfy. I've wanted one for more than a decade and husband kept telling me no because he doesn't like how they look and didn't want one in the common spaces. But then I started working from home and converted our spare bedroom into my office and that was my chance. I took it! My dog mostly sleeps in it while I work, but I love flopping into it during long boring work calls too. It's completely impractical, but it brings me joy.

[–] cupcakezealot@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

if my cats don't count as "items" then definitely my moogle plushies <3

I love cuddly toys too! I'm middle aged and I can do wtf i like

They don't; cats are hyperobjects.

[–] dkppunk@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

My computer. I don’t game as much as I used to, but my PC can do so many things. It can provide endless hours entertainment and so many ways to learn new things. Learning makes me happy, so my computer makes me happy.

This doesn’t include my bunnies or my partner.

[–] kiara@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

They really are great, they've been so supportive of our little community and have worked really hard for us

[–] rozwud@beehaw.org 3 points 1 month ago

My tea kettle.

[–] lexaflexa@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 month ago

Lemon essential oil for removing stickers.

[–] HowlsSophie@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Probably my piano. I feel so proud of myself with the progress I've made being self-taught and am excited to be able to play (some of) my favorite songs.

[–] GrantUsEyes@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 month ago

So not counting pets, and a singular item.... That would be my gaming console most definitely! :P

[–] Sas@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Hmm that question just cause me to discover something weird. My first instinct was to say my replica of Rivers of Blood from Elden Ring but then I noticed it's any long heavy object. Like my electric guitar as well. Somehow the weight against me calms me. I don't even need to play it. Just holding it is enough. Same with the sword. Just holding it calms me.

[–] GrantUsEyes@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

my replica of Rivers of Blood from Elden Ring.

Waaaa so f'ing cool. I'm working on some hand made replicas from Elden Ring myself.

Join us in the soulslike community sis ;)

!soulslike@lemmy.zip

[–] Sas@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

Ah thanks for reminding me. I recently switched from beehaw to blahaj and did not migrate my communities