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I'm in my 40s, so not so much nowadays cos I accept my personality. I'm me, they're them. I've never been one to want to climb the ladder, earn certain amounts etc, so that doesn't bother me.

I can't help doing it with appearance though... and weight. I know i shouldn't but I do

[–] oxysis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago

A lot, mostly cause I have to explain to people all the problems with my body and why no I can’t just do things.

[–] MissyBee@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago

Rarely. I accepted that I am a unique person. All the things that make me me. What I want out of life, my outlook on it, how I feel about things, what I can and can't achieve in life.

Despite Everything, It's Still You

Sometimes on ability or appearance, but doing so can be challenging, so I often don't.