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[–] ianhclark510@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

fun story, I dated a girl named Rose, she up and disappeared after a couple months

7 years later I get a call from a guy named Nes and we've been dating ever since.

so I can totally understand Poltergeisting

[–] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

So are they two the same person or are you just showing off your rizz? Either way, nice 💖

[–] ianhclark510@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 18 hours ago

First of all we know I ain’t got no rizz But yeah the first one, they had transitioned in the meantime

(If it helps they freely refer to themselves being female in the before times, and they’re gender fluid now)

[–] MangiantZ32@lemmy.nz 10 points 1 day ago

It feels pretty horrible to love someone a lot,then be ignored for months. But, the way to go about it is to tell someone you're unavailable for a bit.

[–] aeronmelon@lemmy.world 4 points 23 hours ago

Kronk’s Angel: “No, no, she’s got a point.”

[–] Lumidaub@feddit.org 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 1 points 17 hours ago

Tig gives their Twitter account to others to run a lot of the time. it's often someone else writing jokes or funny tweets on it (or at least it used to be, I quit Twitter years ago)