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[–] redwattlebird@thelemmy.club 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Some of my friends have registered on Flux but still use discord. It's sort of just there until discord makes it unbearable for them to use but discord will never do that. They'll just slowly tighten the noose until you get comfortable.

They pay for nitro, which to me is bonkers.

[–] glitchdx@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago (5 children)

when my nitro expired, I was astonished how much basic functionality was locked behind that paywall. The vanilla experience is so unpleasant.

Meanwhile on stoat, there is no subscription and most of discord's paid features are just... features. Sure, stoat is janky as balls, but so was discord when it was new.

[–] ___@lemmy.ca 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Genuine question: as someone who has never used Discord's Nitro, what basic functionality am I missing out on?

[–] glitchdx@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

lots of customization options for both the interface and your profile, but more important to most people is being able to use emojis/stickers from your subscribed servers everywhere on the platform. This might seem petty, but there's no other software that I regularly use that requires me to pay in order to for example, change the theme of the interface.

edit: that does not include the stuff that I knew I was paying for and was on purpose paying for, like better stream quality and larger upload size and extra shit for my server.

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[–] TwistedTurtle@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I self-host a federated Matrix server and got my family and close friends using it. They actually took to it pretty easy, and although the initial setup was a bit of a headache it's been running smoothly for years now.

I don't really get most of the criticisms of it. I love it.

[–] CanadianCorhen@lemmy.ca 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

How do you compare that to Discord? my friendgroup moved to Steam Chat, and thats... not great.

I was leaning more towards Stoat

[–] D06M4@lemmy.zip 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Steam's astonishingly less easy to configure but once it's done it works for basic group chats when playing. It would be amazing if they hadn't bugged screen sharing on Steam Chat, as it still works well when opened from the main Steam window.

I usually prefer chatting through Steam for anything gaming related and jumping to Matrix or even Jitsi on web for video conferencing and other matters. I'm also open to using other things such as XMPP, Delta Chat, SimpleX and so on, but Steam as a common space for PC users and Matrix for private conversations with all the useful features just hits the right balance between accesibility, reliability and privacy for me.

[–] CanadianCorhen@lemmy.ca 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

i really hate the lack of emotes, limited emojis, and things like posting links and photos doesn't work for us nearly as well as discord, with the links often not loading, or the images coming in rotated.

it works, but it feels like an afterthought, which i guess it is.

[–] D06M4@lemmy.zip 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Lack of emotes/emojis, broken links and rotated pictures? I have never experienced anything remotely similar on Steam or Matrix. Is it a .gif search bar or stickers what you might be missing?

[–] CanadianCorhen@lemmy.ca 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

On steam, not matrix.

I just don't see any emojis or gifs via steam chat, other than their own ones you need to buy from their store.

[–] D06M4@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Yeah. I've got more than enough of those on Steam for free, but that's mostly because of interacting with it's community events or playing games there. You should still be able to use regular emojis from your keyboard too (using hotkeys or copying and pasting them from elsewhere).

[–] CanadianCorhen@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 days ago

fair enough, i could search for them... just feels a lot more akward then most other ways, when they are integrated into the keyboard or chat. even here on Lemmy, there is an emoji button!

[–] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Wow, TeamSpeak is still around???

[–] Holytimes@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 days ago

Sorta, and like the old days they claim they are working on things then take 4 years to do nothing...

[–] AntonioAndolini@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Ventrilo. Been sitting in ventrilo for 30 years

[–] slykethephoxenix@lemmy.ca 1 points 4 days ago

Spelar dota

[–] neuromorph@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago (2 children)

out of the loop. what is discord doing to force an exodus?

[–] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 11 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

ID check. This was also a few months after they had a major leak and hackers stole personal information.

They downplayed it but if it's like all the other social media platforms, it's going to be garbage.

[–] neuromorph@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I thought they cancelled.l the ID thing after the backlash. They are still rolling it out?

[–] keckbug@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

They have publicly rolled back this particular effort. It’s extraordinarily likely that this will resurface in a few months with a different coat of paint.

Not to defend discord, they’re plenty shitty, but the core ID verification premise may be out of their hands, based on the surge in legislation on the topic globally.

[–] Skavau@piefed.social 7 points 6 days ago

Bringing in age-ID verification that they had to apply in the UK and Australia globally for all accounts to access NSFW channels and to be able to take the baby filter off of DMs.

They got heavy backlash for it, and have now delayed it.

[–] Jaimesmith@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Every few years we rediscover decentralized chat and I’m here for it.

[–] h4arts@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 days ago

i love stoat, free, open, can self host, just enough features compared to discord for it to be viable

still using discord since a lot of things i use depend on discord for many things, though. and if you haven't seen, there's stoat to discord and vice versa bridges.

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Stoat doesn't have audio notifications. Makes it kinda doa for me

[–] glitchdx@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

stoat has a lot of new platform jank, but remember discord was just as bad when it was new but we loved it anyway because it was better than everything else at the time. Personally I'm willing to sacrifice some convenience for the sake of privacy and security.

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Agreed but audio notifications are pretty much the single most important thing I am looking for. I would actually love to use Stoat but for me it's IRC atm.

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