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[–] Asnabel@lemm.ee 63 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (5 children)

Remember guys and gals, it's not body shaming when men are on the receiving end!

[–] Lumidaub@feddit.de 31 points 2 years ago

"This person conducts themselves with a confidence that usually comes with physical traits typically considered desirable."

[–] Omega_Haxors@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

That's why I prefer 'big ballsack energy' It's something every male can achieve with enough waiting or the right diet.

[–] problematicPanther@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

spoken like one with little dick energy.

[–] Grayox@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago (25 children)

Are you implying the term Big Dick Energy is body shaming men?

[–] criitz@reddthat.com 28 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Yes. It equates body types with positive/negative traits. ie. "Big dick energy" implies "small dick = bad"

[–] Touching_Grass@lemmy.world 15 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Can we shut the fuck up about being sensitive to everything. Just for a day. Sincerely guy with small dick. Its cold out. Always.

[–] flicker@kbin.social 26 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The thing about this is, you're saying you have a small dick, but this is big dick energy for real.

Maybe someone needs to come up with a better name for it because it's a very real phenomenon and most of us know exactly what it's referring to.

[–] synapse1278@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children)

Maybe someone needs to come up with a better name

Confidence ? E.g: "he is very confident !" = "he has big dick energy !"

[–] ivanafterall@kbin.social 11 points 2 years ago (2 children)
[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Why must dicks be involved?

[–] problematicPanther@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

everything is better with dicks.

[–] lostme@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Especially girls. My gf has a bigger dick than me and I couldn't be happier, no homo

[–] Zehzin@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Grand Phallus Je ne sais quoi

[–] cgarret3@lemm.ee 6 points 2 years ago

The term is secure or self-secure.

As in: “it didn’t bother him because he is secure in himself”

[–] Num10ck@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago
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[–] killeronthecorner@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] lemann@lemmy.one 1 points 2 years ago

Nooooo 😭😂😂

[–] criitz@reddthat.com 4 points 2 years ago

Sorry that adapting is uncomfortable but no

[–] Grayox@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I could see how the phrase implies that, however this meme subverts that by saying that dick size doesn't matter as much as your energy does. And the meme literally says that small dick energy is bad, not having a small pp.

[–] criitz@reddthat.com 11 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Small dick energy is bad but not small dicks? How does that make any sense. Think about it.

[–] Grayox@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Bruh the only time I've ever used the term BDE is to imply that the size of your pp doesn't matter with this meme. Im sorry its upset you, but i dont really care. Trans men can have BDE without even having a dick. YOU are the one implying that small dicks are bad, not me.

[–] superduperenigma@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

Honestly your whole argument is very reminiscent of people in the early 2000s using the word "gay" synonymously with "bad" and insisting it's not only inoffensive to gay people but that anyone who thinks otherwise is the real homophobe.

The whole "big/small dick energy" things is inherently rooted in body shaming for reasons that have already been pointed out. It doesn't matter that you didn't mean it in that way or that you're trying to flip the script by saying your energy doesn't necessarily reflect or corporate to your penis size.

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[–] crystal@feddit.de 5 points 2 years ago

doesn't matter as much

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[–] Zehzin@lemmy.world 22 points 2 years ago

"A specter is haunting Europe, the specter of deez nuts"

[–] mycatiskai@lemmy.one 16 points 2 years ago

Except when a lady friend wants a big dick, then all the big dick energy in the world isn't going to do a lick of good, that's when you have to bring out the lick of good.

[–] paddirn@lemmy.world 14 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Can confirm, having a big dick really hasn’t helped me out.

[–] peopleproblems@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Me neither. But, having big dick energy with a big dick is pretty awesome.

[–] problematicPanther@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

you don't get into dick measuring contests with your homies?

[–] paddirn@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

We prefer games of skill, like dick-sucking contests, so it’s not the size of your member that counts.

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