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[cw: slurs in anti-slur context] i am a femboy. (infosec.pub)
submitted 2 hours ago by thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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(note: i myself am not a femboy nor a man)

be nice, dont fetishize ppl, have respect

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[–] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

I consent to the characterization "a gay Wikipedia".

[–] saltnotsugar@lemmy.world 9 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Dear Gay Wikipedia,
How are you? I am well. What are gay thermodynamics?
-Your pal, saltnotsugar

[–] Draegur@lemmy.zip 9 points 1 hour ago

Everybody is hot to somebody.

[–] Eskarina@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

Okay so what if you've been identifying as a femboy for years, then said fuck this, I'm gonna transition. So you take hormones, remove body hair and really, really hope to just pass as a woman one day, presenting tomboy-ish. And if you don't get far enough, you'll just go back identifying as a femboy. There's no social or presentational dysphoria, but the others are very real.

I accept her (she likes me seeing her as a woman) wherever she ends up, but goddamn, it's confusing as fuck.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

People should experiment and explore to their heart's content. Never feel like you're tied down to identifying a certain way just because you did it first. Don't feel like you're betraying anybody by being yourself.

[–] Eskarina@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 48 minutes ago (1 children)

Yeah, that's a great perspective. Really liked the idea of labels being working hypotheses, for ourselves first and foremost and are of course always allowed to change.

I kinda feel I'm taking an easy way out with the labels, I want to be a woman so that's what I am. For me the harder part is defining what a woman actually is.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 21 minutes ago

I kinda feel that. It makes me feel better that defining womanhood is something a lot cis women deal with too