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[–] wintermutehal@lemmy.world 83 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Part of the reason I find Lemmy enjoyable is I don’t have to worry about bullshit just to throw a comment in. I rarely post, but I have fun commenting stupid crap here and there to pass the time. Not once has anyone been a total dick, maybe a partial chub, but nothing I don’t already expect

[–] boredtortoise@lemm.ee 39 points 2 years ago (6 children)

Yeah, the dread of seeing a new notification in the inbox turns out to be something pretty chill surprisingly often

[–] wintermutehal@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] boredtortoise@lemm.ee 9 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I still had the dread before opening this. Wonder if that ever goes away

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[–] JPJones@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago

UR FACE IS PRETTY CHILL

I blocked the notification with uBlock and just pretend nobody ever reads or comments on my comments. You can say whatever you want if nobody is around to hear it.

Not having a global karma score that is require to post in different subreddits helps too.

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[–] kismattic@lemmy.world 17 points 2 years ago

That’s really been one of the reasons I’ve always just been a lurker on social media. The fediverse spaces I’m in (lemmy/mastodon) have been great so far. I didn’t really have any expectations but the experience has been good for me and I hope for everyone else!

[–] schmidtster@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I find you can talk a little more recreationally here. Can say some stupid stuff and it’s not attacked immediately.

Not everything someone comments should be taken 100% seriously, but there is obviously lines that can’t be touched either.

[–] wintermutehal@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago

This really gets to the heart of it, speaking recreationally is perfectly acceptable and it seems hate just for having an opinion is much lower

[–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It’s small enough that I can say something mildly controversial without getting dogpiled by a mob from /r/SomeEchoChamber

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[–] yum_burnt_toast@reddthat.com 40 points 2 years ago (4 children)

i think this is my third commemt, already almost equal to the amount i made on reddit in all those years i was there.

[–] kismattic@lemmy.world 14 points 2 years ago

Love to see it! Welcome to the party! Honestly this is the most I’ve really done anything on social media stuff so I totally get it.

[–] Robert7301201@slrpnk.net 9 points 2 years ago

I find myself commenting more frequently on Lemmy as well. I attribute it to there being less comments in general so less has already been said. By the time a post shows my reddit feed there's already hundreds of comments and the discussion is already pretty well laid out. At that point I don't really have anything meaningful to add.

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[–] vrighter@discuss.tchncs.de 20 points 2 years ago (6 children)

and even worse, sometimes they even reply days later!

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[–] COASTER1921@lemmy.ml 18 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Lurkers using third party apps were in many ways worse impacted by the API changes than those actively participating. The high cost of API access is only worth as much value as the service is to you, and if lurking that's going to be lower and less likely to be worthwhile in the few third party apps switching to the subscription model.

[–] kismattic@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I was a lurker on the first-party reddit app for the 99.9% of the time I was on there. The ads had just gotten out of hand with not being able to block an ad to get a different ad, I was so tired of getting “He Gets Us” trash so I switched over to Apollo. A week later they announced the API changes. I work in software dev so it’s just frustrating seeing this happen to all of the people out there trying to support their hard work.

[–] COASTER1921@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yep, I used Relay Pro previously but seeing the cost breakdowns the dev posted for the new subscription was disheartening. The dev's portion of the subscription fee is near zero if you use near the limit of you subscription's monthly API requests. So at that point even subscribing isn't really supporting the dev as much as supporting the company that forced these changes upon us. So I chose to not take part.

Lemmy definitely isn't perfect, especially for smaller communities. But it's definitely workable and something I'm happy to contribute to.

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[–] DessertStorms@kbin.social 16 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Switch off notifications, never know the difference RollSafe.jpg

[–] kismattic@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (8 children)

But then I’d never see your amazing advice! Although, would I have needed the advice in the first place?

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[–] Asclepiaz@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] kismattic@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Thank you for participating in the Lemmy reply social experiment! Your reply has received a reply!

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[–] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 years ago (6 children)

Yeah, wtf! Stop replying to me!

[–] kismattic@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I wouldn’t dream of replying to you, that would be a nightmare to do such a thing that would go against the wishes you have of not being replied to at all, again, a thing I would absolutely not do, as to retain your respect!

[–] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 years ago

Thank you very much for not replying. I really do appreciate it.

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[–] JPJones@lemmy.world 14 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] kismattic@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Noooo! Don’t be sorry! Everyone is great!

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[–] Unpigged@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Funny how attached people become to numbers in internet.

What's the exchange rate between Lemmy and reddit karma points?

[–] kismattic@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago

Whatever it is in our electric skull meat gives us the joy of seeing number go up. The value the number has, that’s another story.

Oh goodness, a Lemmy/Reddit currency exchange sounds like some startup NFT/crypto scheme waiting to happen.

[–] illumrial@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago (3 children)

But what if I'm scared to reply?

[–] kismattic@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

That’s okay! Nobody is ever pressured to do anything they don’t feel comfortable doing! Take all the time you need or don’t even worry about it.

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[–] AFaithfulNihilist@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I have found the commenters on Lemmy to be far more thoughtful and reasonable even when they are tearing me apart as a human being. Most commenter seem to be really nice and enthusiastic though.

Maybe it's just a volume thing and we haven't attracted enough of the shit heads yet to overwhelm every thread with nonsense.

[–] kismattic@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

I think those are some pretty fair assumptions. I haven’t been involved in any discussions until now really but people have been kind to me so far. I can be a bit of a goof so nice to know I won’t immediately be attacked for it.

We’ll see what the future of Lemmy will be, but for now things are nice!

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[–] DavidGarcia@feddit.nl 12 points 2 years ago (3 children)

uhhm actually people never reply

[–] Kase@lemmy.world 18 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Oh yeah?? Bet you feel pretty stupid right now >:)

[–] DavidGarcia@feddit.nl 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] sanpo@sopuli.xyz 14 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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[–] kismattic@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago

Lawyers hate this one simple trick

[–] martinbasic@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago

I usually upvote comments I agree because sometimes I'm empty-headed, cannot think about something to comment at the time.

[–] TSG_Asmodeus@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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[–] FARTYSHARTBLAST@kbin.social 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

No one could have predicted this!

[–] kismattic@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago

I shouted to the void, expecting nothing, but the unmistakable sound of a FartyShartBlast echoed in reply.

[–] Palindromes@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Lol I still lurk, I have no idea why I don't like to comment

[–] GojuRyu@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

I oftena don't feel like I have anything to add to the conversation that hasn't been said, so I just end up lurking most of the time. I do comment more than I'd usually do to help the platform, though that admittedly isn't much.

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[–] ApatheticCactus@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] kismattic@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago

That’s alright, as long as you know that I believe in you!

[–] jadedwench@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I love the whole thing to be honest. I am happy to have replies days later. Reddit posts would go "stale" so fast and even if you did comment, you were more than likely to be torn to shreds for existing. It isn't perfect here, but that is because we are people. Getting even half a voice is far better than the anxiety inducing nightmare the Internet tends to be. If I don't want to argue with someone, I just don't respond. If I or someone else end up replying days later, awesome!

I feel a lot more comfortable chiming in once in a while here. The Internet will always be the Internet, but getting even a tiny bit of human connection is amazing. Going from letters, phones, AOL, to now is a miracle. We may be fucked as a species, but sometimes the little things are enough.

Now, go watch Contact. That movie is my absolute favorite movie of all time. Ghost hugs for all!

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[–] ohlaph@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Remember that one time when we were talking about that, but then we found out where the cheese was and there was less talking and more cheese eating?

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