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[–] henry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

I honest to god think this is a defect of the English language. There should be a singular gender neutral pronoun.

[–] AlexTheTurtle@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

There shouldn't be any gendered pronouns at all. Many languages do just fine without them.

[–] henry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago

That's true. It does feel a little strange to have to refer to someone's gender any time you want to refer to them in a sentence. Although conversely for both cis and trans folk alike it's gender affirming for them. It just comes down to language though. It probably seems 100% fine to have genderless pronouns in languages that don't have them.

[–] 100beep@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I mean, we have "it" but that doesn't really work...

[–] henry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Lol yeah except that by very nature is dehumanizing (fun in certain situations hahahahaha average 196 bottom moment 🥺🥺🥺)

[–] 100beep@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Not exactly for everyday use.

[–] NinjaFox@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 years ago

It is it you're not a coward/s

[–] mounderfod@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's especially strange when you consider that English is one of very few European languages to not have grammatical gender

[–] henry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 years ago

English is a mismatched hodgepodge of a language.

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